Thursday, February 26, 2026

Uncommon Graces

 

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Issue No. 627 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting (Nov. 19, 2024) highlights seven “uncommon graces” that need front-row seats today. Plus, click here to see book recommendations in all 20 management buckets (core competencies).

 
John Vawter writes: “When ‘safe sins’ go unchallenged, something of a Christian fantasy religion is allowed to thrive—a religion that condemns alcohol and adultery, yet condones, say, arrogance and abrasiveness. There should be a support group in the church for those addicted to ‘safe sins’—an AA for the arrogant and the abrasive.”
 
AA for the Arrogant and Abrasive

Yikes! John Vawter writes about one of his best friends who considered “leaving his extremely stressful job. He reached this conclusion one night when he went to tell his daughter goodnight. As he sat beside her, he said, ‘I’m sorry I yelled at you. I’ve had a bad day at work.’ She looked up at him and said, ‘Dad, you have a lot of bad days at work.’”

Vawter adds, “His daughter acted as a circuit breaker. With that one sentence, she gave him the opportunity to set aside his excuses and take an honest look at how the stress of his job was affecting him.” Read more about “circuit breakers” in this powerful book:
Written in 1998 by this discerning pastor, former seminary president, golfer, and golf ball hawker (see below!), this NavPress book is as current as today’s headlines—and needed now more than ever. In his chapter, “Establishing Circuit Breakers,” Vawter asks, “Why is it that so many people who claim to be followers of Jesus Christ live lives that are so offensive?”

And before you cheer, “Yes! A book I can give to some of my friends”—I’d encourage you to read Uncommon Graces prayerfully yourself. And keep a big mirror handy.

Vawter says that “Just as circuit breakers in our homes break the flow of electricity when there is a power surge or another electrical problem, personal circuit breakers are those people who God uses to break the flow of destructive behaviors in our lives.” He adds, “Each of us needs circuit breakfast in our lives. And God has called us to be circuit breakers in the lives of others.” 

The author lists five reasons we need circuit breakers (I love the metaphor!):
#1. To help us look at ourselves.
#2. To help us see how our weaknesses cause us to behave. (You’ll appreciate his insights on the four social styles. Vawter is a “Driver”—and yes, that gets him in trouble sometimes!) I have no idea why that might be.
#3. To help us take responsibility for ourselves. (Read his wife’s funny poke!)
#4. To show us how we are hurting others. (Yikes! Read what his daughter and son told him.)
#5. To help us grow. (Read why a leader told him, “You honor the leader you have.” See the blurb below for A Tale of Three Kings.)

This chapter is meaty enough for weeks of reflection—and I haven’t even mentioned the author’s list of seven “uncommon graces.” (What seven would you list?) Vawter recommends these “simple courtesies of grace” to our hostile world: Gentleness, Attentiveness, Loyalty, Candor, Mercy, Kindness, and Repentance.

GENTLENESS. Vawter quotes a professional counselor: “Some of the smartest people who come to see me are the best liars. They pay money to sit there for sixty minutes and lie.” And read this:

“When ‘safe sins’ go unchallenged, something of a Christian fantasy religion is allowed to thrive—a religion that condemns alcohol and adultery, yet condones, say, arrogance and abrasiveness. There should be a support group in the church for those addicted to ‘safe sins’—an AA for the arrogant and the abrasive.”

ATTENTIVENESS. Read why a friend declined to speak at a conference—until the conference leaders changed their arrogant theological postures!

LOYALTY. “You’ve all heard about the Norwegian who loved his wife so much that he almost told her.”

CANDOR. “One college board chairman told an administrator, ‘I don’t want you going out and conducting any more conflict-resolution seminars. You haven’t resolved a single conflict in your own institution.’” (See also the HBR article on candor in the boardroom and the Peacemakers website.)

MERCY. “In contrast to the darkness that selfishness and insensitivity bring with them, mercy walks into a room and brightens everything.” (Enjoy this song.)

KINDNESS. The author quotes Charles L. Allen, “If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man’s life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.”

REPENTANCE. What about people who refuse to look in the mirror? Vawter mentions Hale Irwin’s comments on golfing great Jack Nicklaus. (Really interesting!) Then addressing those in the church who are rarely, if ever, repentant, Vawter writes, “But isn’t it true that far too many people who say they are followers of Christ who have to be hit over the head with a nine iron before they will admit the truth?”

And speaking of golf—after you look in the mirror at these uncommon graces—take a swing at another book by John Vawter, Anything for a Golf Ball: The Art of Finding Lost Golf Balls. While learning about “ball hawking” is laugh-out-loud funny, you’ll also find it redemptive. “Billy Graham [was] a ball hawker. He says it is a direct practical carryover from his life's spiritual mission ‘to seek and save that which is lost.’”

 
 
Uncommon Graces will preach! Whether you rotate the leadership (one person per week sharing one of the seven uncommon graces at staff meetings), or your church launches a sermon series—you’ll find treasure in every chapter:
   • Dozens (maybe hundreds) of practical stories—punctuating the points.
   • Memorable anecdotes including Football Coach Frosty Westering’s inspirational goal for an out-of-shape middle-aged man, who started out as “a one-tree man” and placed a tiny tree in his office every time he reached a new “tree” goal. (In six weeks, he became a 43-tree man.) Brilliant!
   • In a project for Murdock Trust, the author collaborated on a phone survey to 420 people that asked, “What is the number-one quality you’re looking for in your pastor?” (The #1 response: “compassion.” What would #1 be now in 2024? Must-read chapter, “Building Community.”)
   • Learn how “Living the Golden Rule” (Chapter 10), prompted frequent letters from custodians at other universities. See how Coach John Wooden’s UCLA basketball teams practiced the golden rule at their away games! Stunning.

FORE! In 2007, I was the fourth guy in a golf foursome in Palm Desert, Calif. I didn’t know the other golfers, but I mentioned a new Ken Blanchard book I had heard about. Everyone laughed and pointed to Bob Jewell, the marketing brains behind the book that also became a movieSmall world! Jewell gave me a copy of The Mulligan—Everyone Needs a Second Chance in Golf and in Life, by Wally Armstrong and Ken Blanchard. (I named it Book #64 of 100 on my must-read list.)

Had The Mulligan been written before 1998, I’m sure John Vawter would have included it in Uncommon Graces. Over the years since Vawter and I were in seminary together, we met only once in 1986 at a Leadership Network retreat with Peter Drucker in Estes Park, Colo. (Read more about Peter Drucker here and click here for the memorable story Drucker shared.)

NO EAGLES! Just this month—38 years since connecting with John Vawter in person—we golfed together and I was able to thank him personally for writing this powerful and convicting book. And no…I’m not revealing my golf score, but I did lose (not find) two new golf balls in the water!

TO ORDER FROM AMAZON, click on the title for Uncommon Graces: Christlike Responses to a Hostile World, by John Vawter.


 
YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) John Vawter quotes Harry Evans, former president of Trinity Seminary, who was asked by a denominational executive, “Evans, why does your board hate me?” Harry Evans responded, “I think it’s because they think you’re two-faced.” Yikes! QUESTION: Does being a “circuit breaker” for colleagues sometimes require a proverbial two-by-four—or even more?

2) Vawter writes, “Too often we duck such confrontations. We ‘enable’ our friends in their wrong behavior and attitudes in the name of mercy or tolerance. But mercy, tolerance, and enabling are distinct from each other. POP QUIZ! Define each word (answers: pages 165-166). 

BONUS! For more on the power of grace, read my review of Grace Ambassador: Bringing Heaven to Earth, by John Jackson.
 
    
Mastering 100 Must-Read Books
Part 18: The Final Four

Book #97 of 100: A Tale of Three Kings

For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Book #97 in Mastering 100 Must-Read Books
A Tale of Three Kings:
A Study in Brokenness

by Gene Edwards

 
Books #97 through #100 spotlight “the final four” books in this recommended volume of 100 must-read books. My suggestion: give this book to someone who’s just been fired! (Really.)
     • Order from Amazon.
    • Listen on Libro (1 hour, 42 minutes)
    • Download the 100 Must-Read Books list (from John and Jason Pearson).

David complained to the Lord that King Saul was hardly God-honoring—so why should he honor and respect this tyrant king?  Sound familiar? “Why did I get fired? My boss is the jerk, not me. Lord, this isn’t fair!”

Gene Edwards is a master storyteller and this classic unwraps the relationships between David, Saul and Absalom. His conclusions may astound you. It’s a great book to mention at your weekly staff meeting.

BONUS! Read why Bob Lonac has read this book three times!
     

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Corporate Boards vs. Church Boards

“Perhaps the most important difference between corporate governance and church board leadership is the task of discernment.” That’s from Book #3 of 3, in the Transforming Church Boards series, by Dennis Baker, David C. Fisher, and John Vawter (also author of Uncommon Graces above). Read my review.  And for more book reviews, visit the Pails in Comparison Blog.

Wednesday, February 25, 2026

The 365 Day Leader

 

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Issue No. 615 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting (July 24, 2024) urges you to read a daily dose of Dick Daniels from his hot-off-the-press book, The 365 Day Leader: Recalibrate Your Calling Every DayPlus, click here to see book recommendations in all 20 management buckets (core competencies).

Why do we need 365 daily nudges on leadership? The late Zig Ziglar wrote, “People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing—that’s why we recommend it daily.” I’m loving my daily dose of Dick Daniels!

 
Recalibrate Your Calling Every Day

For years, I’ve urged leaders to “get a daily dose of Drucker”—insights every day from Peter Drucker (1909-2005), the father of modern management. (Read my review of The Daily Drucker.) But that was the 20th century, Pearson! What are you recommending for the next generation of leaders and managers? I’m glad you asked!
 
Dick Daniels has done it again! Two of his earlier books captured my “book-of-the-year” honors. Will The 365 Day Leader get top billing in 2024? (Stay tuned.) In the meantime, you will love this “daily dose of Dr. D.” Every day features a short “snapshot of what exemplary leaders consistently do.” Examples:

• LEADERSHIP DELUSION! “Have You Ever Had a Coach? The leadership delusion is to assume everyone needs a coach except you.” (Day 3)

• MUSEUM TERMINOLOGY. “A ‘Curator’ is defined as the keeper or custodian of a museum or other collections. Leaders are ‘Curators’ of organizational culture which is the collection of the company’s vision, mission, values, and strategy.” (Day 15)

• ETHICS MADE EASY. “Wrong is never right even if everyone does it. Right is never wrong even if no one does it.” (Day 17)

• PRIORITIES. “The capacity of a leader increases when they protect their time and their priorities to address the important more than the urgent.” (Day 23)

• FINAL INTERVIEW QUESTIONS. “The Professional Competence Question: Can they do the job? The Personal Drive Question: Do they want to do the job? The Cultural Fit Question: Will we like them while they do the job?” (Day 30)

• THE TOXIC TEAM MEMBER. “Waiting too long while making well-intended attempts to bring the toxic member up, brings everyone else down.” (Day 36)

• KNOW YOUR TEAM. “If you don’t know the uniqueness of each direct report, then you will never understand how to uniquely develop them either.” (Day 44)

• NO JOKE! “It’s no joke that leaders are human… It’s no joke that leaders make mistakes… It’s no joke that great leaders admit it!” (Day 50)

• LEADERSHIP WORDS MATTER. “Tomorrow, you may not remember what you said today, but some of your words may stick with a team member forever.” (Day 55)

Oh, my. Each day—each short bellringer—is a team engagement conversation waiting to happen. The wisdom oozes off the page. The insights are fresh. The leadership poke-in-the-ribs, well…convicting! More examples:
   • Day 60: Three Questions to Ask Before Signing the Offer Letter
   • Day 85: The Eisenhower Matrix (the four quadrants: Do, Schedule, Delegate, Delete)
   • Day 160: When Plan “A” Doesn’t Work
   • Day 161: I’m Leading. What Could Go Wrong?

Did I mention gut-checks and pokes-in-the-ribs? Pick a page—any page—and you’ll be reminded to “recalibrate your calling every day.” (I love that!) But you’ll also be compelled to leverage these lifelong learning principles as you invest in developing your direct reports.

• LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT CONSEQUENCES. “It’s so much better to develop your supervisors, managers, and leaders even if they leave, rather than not develop them and they stay.” (Day 56)

• THE EMOTIONAL QUESTION. “Is this the best time, place, person, and level of intensity to express what I am feeling in this moment?” (Day 199)

• THE DANGER OF THE 15%. “Some leaders are often right. It’s a powerful gift to be a subject matter expert and be right even 85% of the time. The danger is when a leader assumes they are right 100% of the time. It becomes a personal blind spot 15% of the time when they are wrong but think they are right.” (Day 200)

• LOOKING FOR THE SILVER BULLET. “Leaders would love a guaranteed quick solution for difficult problems. There are no quick fixes for complex issues. Start by looking for the root cause. That just might be the silver bullet.” (Day 206)

I’m a big fan of Dick Daniels. Read my reviews of his other three books and you’ll see why this gifted leader and author received a stunning endorsement for The 365 Day Leader from Marshall Goldsmith, the Thinkers50 #1 Executive Coach.

[  ] Hardwiring New Leadership Habits: Does Development Develop? by Dick Daniels 
[  ] Leadership Core: Character, Competence, Capacity (Leadership Multipliers), by Dick Daniels 
[  ] Leadership Briefs: Shaping Organizational Culture to Stretch Leadership Capacity, by Dick Daniels

I had the privilege of writing a one-page preface for The 365 Day Leader. I wrote, “So why do we need 365 daily nudges on leadership? The late Zig Ziglar wrote, ‘People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing—that’s why we recommend it daily.’ I’m loving my daily dose of Dick Daniels!”

I mention my preface—reluctantly—because I just posted this gem on my office wall:
TOO ARROGANT OR TOO HUMBLE?
“What is one thing you could do differently
to avoid arrogance and practice genuine humility?”

(Day 362)

Trust me. Leadership is messy, and as Daniels promises, “Every leader will face at least one impossible situation during their leadership tenure.” We need all the help we can get and gratefully—help has arrived! Leverage the introduction in The 365 Day Leader and review the six “How To” steps for your weekly staff meeting—to help your team answer the “So What?” questions of exemplary leadership. Brilliant!

TO ORDER FROM AMAZON, click on the title for The 365 Day Leader: Recalibrate Your Calling Every Day, by Dick Daniels. Note: You may be able to purchase the book at a discounted price at Ingram Spark: hardcover or paperback.


 
 YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) Planning an early fall team or board retreat? Read my blog, “Team Retreat Engagement Plan: 4 Books by Dick Daniels,” [to be reposted in 2026] for an idea on how to inspire team members to summarize a book chapter in four minutes. (Hint: You’ll need a few Starbucks cards!) What inspires you to read a leadership book? A crisis or an opportunity? 
 2) In 2015, I cajoled 42 friends and colleagues to be guest bloggers for my Drucker Mondays blog—a 52-week journey through the book, A Year with Peter Drucker: 52 Weeks of Coaching for Leadership Effectiveness, by Joseph A. Maciariello. [to be reposted in 2026]. Each Monday in 2015, we featured a Drucker fan and his or her favorite snippet from the week's topic. What’s your favorite Druckerism?

IDEAS: In “The Drucker Bucket” chapter of Mastering the Management Buckets, I list five ways to engage your team in practicing the art of leadership and management: 1) Stand and read, 2) Boot and read, 3) Email and read, 4) Post and read, and 5) Brown bag and read.
 
    
Mastering 100 Must-Read Books
Part 15: Feeble Faith and Flabby Worship

Book #85 of 100: The Cure

For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Book #85 in Mastering 100 Must-Read Books
The Cure: 
What If God Isn’t Who You Think He Is 
and Neither Are You

by John Lynch, Bruce McNicol and Bill Thrall
 
Books #82 through #86 spotlight five soul-strengthening books to connect you with the God of the Universe. The Cure gently describes (in story and commentary) two profound fork-in-the-road choices. One fork: a “Pleasing God” sign points me to a giant building labeled “Striving Hard to Be All God Wants Me to Be.” The door has a title, “Self-Effort.”
    • Order from AmazonThe Cure
    • Download the 100 Must-Read Books list (from John and Jason Pearson).

The other option: “The Room of Grace!” The authors write, “Grace! That word appears 122 times in the New Testament. The Judaizers in the Apostle Paul’s day hated it. They feared what it would do if it got loose. ‘Paul, you can’t tell them this!’ they said. ‘These people are immature, lazy and have little religious background. They’ll abuse as soon as they can. They’ll live Christianity-lite. These people are weak and want to do whatever they want. And believe me, what they want is not good.’” 
 

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Monday, February 23, 2026

The Problem With Change

 

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Issue No. 608 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting (May 17, 2024) recommends another candidate for book-of-the year that changed my thinking about change! Plus, click here to download free resources from the 20 management buckets (core competencies). Also, read my recent review of The Illusion of Innovation: Escape "Efficiency" and Unleash Radical Progress

The author of The Problem With Change lists five major problems in “Blender Land” (our workplaces) when change is unwittingly foisted upon normally-healthy team members. One biggie: “The problem of lack of control.”
 

 
Changed My Thinking About Change!

If there were a Pulitzer Prize or a Booker Prize for “Best Beginning of a Nonfiction Book,” this year’s prize would certainly be awarded to:
Listen free to the first 5 minutes of the audio book.

The author invites us into a corporate setting (“for the sake of illustration”). It’s Friday and the Wall Street Journal reports “that the company you work for is in advanced discussions of some sort with your largest competitor.”

Then, after 48 hours of “much frantic pinging of your peers and little concrete news, late on Sunday comes the official press release: The two companies are merging. There follows a flurry of announcements from your senior leaders, who are, to a person, both ‘excited’ and ‘thrilled’ by the news—some are even ‘energized.’”

It gets worse (I mean, funnier). A fanfare heralds “the Arrival of the Management Consultants” and finally, “white smoke emerges from the regulatory chimney, and the deal is given the go-ahead.” (For more “white smoke” and change examples, view the movie, We Have a Pope.)

What follows?
• Reorganization!
• Listening Tour!
• Bad Old Names replaced by Obviously Better New Names!
• And worse!

“In all of this, you will marvel that things were quite so broken in the old world…” It gets worse! Musical chairs, one step forward, two steps back—and more “fanfare heralds the Arrival of the Rival Management Consultants”—and, of course, a special PowerPoint template. The new Model emerges and all of this will “help people who were, last week, working happily alongside one another to continue to do so, but with betterness.”

LOL! (There’s more: the new open floor plan, “because collaboration.”) “This is life in the blender,” writes Ashley Goodall, a leadership expert and former Chief Learning Officer for Leadership and Professional Development. (He’s seen it all—and it ain’t pretty.)

And speaking of floor plans, had the publisher asked me, I would have suggested a new subtitle for this Very Important Wake-Up Call:
THE PROBLEM WITH CHANGE: 
Before You Play Office-Layout-Musical-Chairs Again, Reorganize Your Organizational Chart, or Rewrite Another Shiny New Mission Statement—Read THIS Book!

Frankly, I fear my feeble review will cause you to delete this and move on—but that would be your biggest mistake this year (honest). I love this book and I couldn’t stop reading excerpts and one-liners to my wife. She loves it! Last week I emailed five colleagues—urging them to listen to the free five-minute audio and then read (or listen to) the entire book.

But here’s my problem. My last review, The Illusion of Innovation, trumpeted the power of disruption. This week’s book, The Problem With Change, takes a contrarian view—and I appreciate both sides of this debate! I hinted that last week’s book might be my 2024 book-of-the-year. Yikes! I may need two books-of-the-year. 

Why? Page after page, learning about the unhealthy results of change foisted on previously healthy team members, I was reminded of the many missteps in my leadership years—totally missing the trauma that I unwittingly perpetrated on employees. (So sorry, friends—if we’re still friends.) My entire view of CHANGE has changed.

EXAMPLES:
• “Toxic Positivity.” The dozens of interviews with people enduring workplace changes are stunning, even eye-opening. “Leslie” grew tired of the “toxic positivity” when new leaders would babble “…there always being an upside to change, or a lesson, or that when one door closes, another one opens.”
• In the first chapter, “Life in the Blender,” the new leader arrives and mandates that the microwave in the office be replaced because it was “nonstandard.” When employees exited—unable to deal with all the small and big changes—it became a joke: those employees were “nonstandard.”
• First 90 Days. “Leaders are told to spend their first ninety days in a new role figuring out a plan for change, and then to launch that plan on day ninety-one, needed or not.” (Ouch! See more on the first 90 days.)
• “No one has ever made a name for themselves by saying, ‘Let’s stay as we were and see where it takes us.’”
• And if, while leaders are explaining upcoming changes, “they manage to say the word ‘disrupt’ a lot, they get extra-bonus-biz-dude points. A few years back, it was cool, in certain circles to describe yourself as a Change Agent; now all the change agents are looking sad and slow, and all the cool kids are Disrupters.”

“CHANGE-Y WORDS” AND “MEANING CREEP.” In the chapter, “The Cult of Disruption,” the author doesn’t hold back:

“Before Disruption, the job was to move things up and to the right. After Disruption, the job is just to move things. In this way, the advent of disruption was also the occasion for an insidious bit of meaning creep. Right under our noses, all the change-y words—innovate, disrupt, change, renew, transform, update, reimagine, reinvent, refresh—came to share a single, unquestionable meaning: better!”

Oh, my. Ashley Goodall is a writer’s writer. I’m on my second black felt tip pen—underlining his pokes-in-the-ribs glossary:
• “Financification of business”
• “Tagline-ification” and “big shiny change levers” and “shiny new mission statements”
• “Hubris Syndrome” and the “Altitude Sickness” of higher-than-ye leaders who “wall” themselves off from the changes (“assaults”) they inflict on their people
• Why “foosball and free food” doesn’t cut it anymore

Here are the problems with the changes you’re throwing at your people:
• The problem of uncertainty
• The problem of lack of control
• The problem of unbelonging
• The problem of displacement
• The problem of loss of meaning

Hard-headed (and hard-hearted) leaders will skip this book—thinking there’s no room for the “softer” side of leadership. They will do this at their own peril. Read this book—and it will change your thinking. Warning! Your misguided changes (yes, you!) often produce:
• Dizzy spells and nausea. (Yes, in your people!)
• Nostalgia. (It’s a thing. Documented in the U.S. Civil War to have “caused the illnesses of 5,537 soldiers of the Union army and the deaths of 74 of those.” Oh, my!)
• Loss of meaning. (It’s not the same for each person.) “Meaning isn’t a property of a company, and it isn’t something stapled onto us by someone else. It is a property of a person, and if we are to find it, it must be discovered by each of us for ourselves.”

The simplest next steps in the Internet’s “10 Critical Changes in 10 Weeks” blather will likely backfire and boomerang on you—if you are not a student of how change impacts “the essential nature of human performance.” (Did I mention eye-opening?)

Need to change your tagline or brand promise? “These are attempts to engage in some way with higher human purpose, and yet they are some of the more bland and non-goose-bump-inducing things that companies say.” It’s part of the “seldom-challenged belief that things that can’t be said in one pithy sentence aren’t worth saying at all.” Must-read: the power of story-telling in the section, “The problem of loss of meaning.”

I gotta end this review—but I haven’t yet coaxed you into the deep end of the pool—how to RETHINK change. Goodall includes nine next steps—all beginning with verbs: Make space, Forge undeniable competence, Share secrets, Be predictable, Speak real words, Honor ritual, Focus most on teams, Radicalize HR, and Pave the way.

In the section, “Focus most on teams,” the author notes the “engagement” research of Gallup, Deloitte, and his co-author of an earlier book, Marcus Buckingham. He cites studies on the performance of the “best teams” at Cisco using eight questions in three categories: company experience, individual experience, and team experience. The first two “are shaped by their overall team experience.” The eight questions, alone, are worth the price of the book! You may become a believer: “Focus MOST on teams!”

Read why Goodall is so passionate about healthy teams: “This is nothing short of criminal. Companies are clueless—and incurious—about their single most important organizational unit.” There is so much value in this book, I’m tempted to write a second review, maybe a “Zoom Review” with willing zealots. Any takers? This is already another nominee for my 2024 book-of-the-year.

To order from Amazon, click on the title for The Problem with Change: And the Essential Nature of Human Performance, by Ashley Goodall. Listen on Libro (7 hours, 58 minutes). And thanks to the publisher for sending me a review copy.


 
 YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) Ashley Goodall quotes management prof Jeffrey Pfeffer that when team members experience a lack of control in the workplace, it “compares unfavorably with exposure to secondhand smoke in terms of physical health, mental health, morbidity, and mortality, and that diminished agency has a greater correlation with heart disease than does smoking.” Yikes! QUESTION: Of the five major problems that change creates in our workplace, is “a lack of control” our most challenging problem?

2) In the book, Belonging Rules, Brad Deutser writes, “Most leaders think about belonging as yet another squishy, amorphous concept more easily relegated to Human Resources than as a function under the vision, direction, and responsibility of the C-suite. Our work and research in this space says emphatically ‘No!’” QUESTION: So who should read this week’s book? Click on the title to order The Problem With Change.

3) Bonus Book! Patrick Lencioni wrote the foreword to the 25th anniversary edition of Managing Transitions: Making the Most of Change, by William Bridges. I recommend this book often. (Read my review.) See also the blog I wrote for ECFA, “Beware the Emotional Effects of Transition.”
 
    
Mastering 100 Must-Read Books
Part 14: Leadership & Management at War

Book #78 of 100: Operation Mincemeat

For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Book #78 in Mastering 100 Must-Read Books
Operation Mincemeat: 
How a Dead Man and a Bizarre Plan
Fooled the Nazis and Assured an Allied Victory 

by Ben Macintyre

(now a Netflix movie!)
 
Books #77 through #81 spotlight five fascinating books with military viewpoints on leadership and management. On June 6, 2024, we will commemorate the 80th anniversary of D-Day in World War II, when the Allies invaded Western Europe in the largest amphibious attack in history. In this page-turning book, the leadership and management issues jump off the pages—including how to recognize the twin sins of “wishfulness” and “yesmanship.”
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In World War II, following the successful North Africa campaign, a tiny team at British Intelligence in London attempt to create the biggest ruse in war history—convincing the Germans that the Allied invasion of Europe would come through Greece and Sardinia, not Sicily. The big idea: find a corpse, build an identity, dress and drop it off the coast of Spain by submarine—and deceive the German spies in Spain into believing that the officer’s secret documents contained the invasion plans.

It’s a true thriller—and the details and insights are extraordinary. The small team in London (about 20 men and women and just five typewriters in a stuffy underground office) executed the plan with spy movie genius.
 

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Finding Courage

 

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Issue No. 673 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting (Feb. 23, 2026) suggests you slow way, way down in your quest for courage and—get this—expect trouble along the way. Plus, click here for recent issues posted at the NEW site for John Pearson’s Buckets Blog, including my recent review of A Board Prayer: Explore Seven God-Honoring Board Practices, by Dan Bolin. Also, check out the 20 management buckets (core competencies) and more book reviews at the Pails in Comparison Blog.


Steve Brown—on his quest for spiritual courage—begins his daily prayer, “Before my day even starts, I admit I’m in over my head today.”
 

Prayer of Incompetence

Steve Brown writes: “I start most days with what I call a ‘Prayer of Dependence’ (I also call it a ‘Prayer of Incompetence’) that reflects the posture of Psalm 70:5.” On Day 26, “Posture Matters,” of his 28-day courage journey, he confesses:
“Dear God, I need You.
Before my day even starts, 
I admit I’m in over my head today.”

Oh, my. When I completed the 28th day in this expedition for the soul—I wondered if I could inspire Steve Brown to write 28 more chapters. Actually, I would read 100 chapters from this transparent college president(Who admits they need more courage?) This is a very special book. Bring a pen and an open heart.
 
Finding Courage: 
A Four-Week Devotional Journey

by Steve A. Brown (May 1, 2025)
 
Brown adds to Day 26, “On my own, I’m in deep trouble. But with and in Christ, everything changes. Fresh courage comes by humbly depending on and trusting God."

The book’s daily format is perfect: two pages on a courage topic—and then two short pages with his “Bottom Line” summary, plus “Action and Reflection.” (I love it when an author suggests next steps.) Each day features a prayer “inspired by” several Bible passages. (I love that too.) I found morning treasure every day. Examples:

Day 1. “As C.S. Lewis wrote in The Screwtape Letters‘Courage isn’t simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point.” Short reminders about Queen Esther, Nathan, Peter, and Joshua punctuate this first chapter. Brown suggests a courage definition for Jesus followers: “Courage is choosing to follow Jesus even when your knees are knocking.”

Day 2. Noting that the disciples of Jesus “were slow learners and frequent on-the-job sleepers,” Brown contrasts their courage with this: “Despite His identity as the Son of God, Jesus rejected entitlement. He didn’t buy into the temptation that He deserved unique perks or was due special treatment.” In his Day 2 prayer, Brown gifts pastors with a four-point sermon outline: “Thank you for choosing sacrifice, servanthood, submission, and seeking the Father’s glory about all else.” (The “4 S’s” will preach!)

Day 3. On the theme, “Expect Trouble” (John 16:33), the author quotes J.R.R. Tolkien: “The birth, death, and resurrection of Jesus mean that one day everything sad will come untrue.”

Day 8. Read why Brown memorized Psalm 16:8 and why he has a framed picture of the verse on his office wall and in his living room.

Day 9. “In the midst of this difficult journey, our Omega juicer taught me an important lesson,” admits Brown. He elaborates: “When you are faithful, God sees your faithfulness and delights in it. Thankfully, you don’t need to drum up faithfulness on your own. While faithfulness is a choice and a commitment to persevere, faithfulness is ultimately a fruit of the Spirit. Its source flows from the unquenchable resources of our faithful God.”

Day 10. LOL! “To me, it totally seemed like God had somehow penetrated Uber’s booking software to get me in the back of Darren’s car with a tangible reminder that God sees him.” And this: “But now, as I reflected on Darren praying for me, it seemed like God had just done a two-for-one miracle.”

Day 11. Stunning! Steve Brown reached out to a trusted mentor, Evon, who was in his early nineties at the time. Read how the Bible verse, “Be still, and know that I am God,” ministered to Brown’s stress and anxiety. (Note to self: Who are my 90-year-old mentors?)

Day 13. “Being a nonanxious presence is a critical trait and practice when you are responsible for others. It’s also critical for anyone facing a challenge. If your spirit is settled, steady, and filled with peace, then you will think more clearly and act more courageously. Your example will also help those around you be more steady, settled, and courageous.”

Day 14. “Come Alongside” shares the poignant story of the 1992 Summer Olympics in Barcelona. View this short YouTube video as Great Britain’s Derek Redmond courageously hobbles to the finish line of the 400-meter semifinal. (See who comes alongside.)



Day 16. You’ll quote frequently from the chapter, “Get Some Sleep.” Brown lists three spiritual realities about why you should take naps and get adequate rest. Number 2: “Sleep is a reminder that we are not God.”

Day 19. On this day, we’re urged to remember that we’re surrounded by others (Hebrews 12)—and to make a list of eight to 10 people whose example in faith have inspired us. My list was a trip down numerous memory lanes—spiritually powerful. PTL!

Day 21. Have you ever read this? “Seeing people is a prerequisite for being a courage giver. If we don’t see people, we won’t be courage givers. And simply seeing people can give them courage. Noting Mark 5:32, Brown writes, “Every single person matters. You won’t ever see someone who doesn’t matter.” How do I do this?
   • Include in your prayer: “Please slow my cadence down so I can see people in my everyday moments today.” (I’d add, listen to this Chuck Girard song, Slow Down.)
   • And pray this: “Help me to leave deposits of courage where I go and whatever I do. I pray this in the name of the One who sees me and says I matter.”

Day 23. After reading that the Lord’s compassions never fail—and are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23), Brown reminds us that “Back in the Old Testament days, when God did something significant, people would often mark the event by giving the place a special name or building an altar." The big idea: “Remember Faith Markers.”

These markers became “an educational and encouragement tool for future generations. When a young person asked about the pile of rocks on a memorial altar, they would then hear and be encouraged by another story of God’s provision and protection. These stories were fuel for courage.

Oh, my. I was blessed recently to be part of a chain of God-orchestrated moments for my brother’s celebration of life service. Read the story here on the God Reports website—and learn about the “marker” (a shepherd’s staff!) for Jim’s grandson, who serves at SAMBICA, a Christian camp and retreat center.

This 23rd day devotional was jammed with encouragement. Brown notes Mary Oliver’s poem, “Sometimes,” that “provides a profound template for remembering God’s faithfulness and work in our lives.” Oliver writes, “Pay attention. Be astonished. Tell about it.” Steve Brown reminds us that “Too often, we move too fast to pay attention to what God has done or is doing. As a result, we aren’t astonished, and we have nothing to tell about.”

Day 24. Steve Brown is also the author of Great Questions for Leading Well (see my “Questions Issue”), and other books, and on this day he urges us to “find an hour or two per month with two or three peers (in-person or online if needed)” and ask these six questions:
   #1. How are you really doing?
   #2. What can you celebrate right now?
   #3. What are you learning?
   #4. What are you grieving?
   #5. What’s hard?
   #6. How can we pray?

Day 25. Referencing Tim Keller’s insights, Brown writes that “You are a spiritual billionaire because of the magnitude of what Christ has done for you and in light of your identity as a joint heir with Christ.” Oh, my. I immediately wrote the words, “SPIRITUAL BILLIONAIRE,” in the prayer guide I use frequently. 

Need courage? Know someone who needs courage? Read this four-week devotional journey (28 days). I’ve spotlighted just 15 days, but I could have highlighted all 28 insights on courage.  

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YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) Finding Courage, by Steve Brown, is one of 12 “Inspirational Resources” I featured in the Dec. 17, 2025, issue of Your Weekly Staff MeetingSee my mini-reviews here, plus a new addition, Reconstructing Faith: 365 Days to Reconsider Jesus, by Dick Daniels. QUESTION: What’s your favorite devotional book? What are you reading now?
2) I featured Steve Brown’s book, Leading Me: Eight Practices for a Christian Leader's Most Important Assignment, on my list of Top-10 books in 2016. Read my review hereQUESTION: Without asking ChatGPT, or looking on your team member’s paper, list eight best practices about leading yourself. (Then, read the book for Brown’s answers.)
3) 
As a sidebar to Steve Brown's book on courage, delegate your reading and ask a team member to read The Courage Gap: 5 Steps to Braver Actionby Margie Warrell. (Read my review.) QUESTION: What's one new insight on courage you gleaned from this book?
 
   
SECOND READS: Fresh Solutions From Classic Books
You have changed—and your problems have changed—since you read this the first time!

Book #41 of 99: The Choice

For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Book #41 of 99 in our series, “Second Reads.” The big idea: REREAD TO LEAD! Discover how your favorite books still have more to teach you and the people you’re coaching and mentoring.
 
The Choice: 
The Christ-Centered Pursuit of Kingdom Outcomes

by Gary G. Hoag, R. Scott Rodin,
and Wesley K. Willmer (March 14, 2014)

DON'T READ THIS BOOK! You read that right...if you're good with what Hoag, Rodin, and Willmer label "The Common Path." Or if... "production-driven leadership, expansion-focused strategies, earthly oriented metrics, results-based management, and a utilitarian view of resources" ...is working out for you—then don't read this book. 
   • Reviewed in Issue No. No. 297 (April 13, 2014).
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   • Management Bucket #1 of 20: The Results Bucket.

DON'T READ THIS BOOK...if you strongly disagree that "defining success may be the most important decision we make as God's people." That's line one, chapter one, in this radical book, published by ECFAPress. And don’t read this book—if you've drummed all the critical thinking out of your strategic planning and SMART goals process—and have not examined your presuppositions since...well, maybe never. 
 

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“When the horse is dead, dismount!” That’s from The Results Bucket chapter (free download) in Mastering the Management Buckets. See page 21, in the workbook, for a list of 21 ways that church leaders respond when they discover that their ‘horse’ is dead!” (Hilarious thanks to Elmer Towns and Warren Bird!)

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DOES OUR BOARD REALLY OWN THE STRATEGY?

More than 300 board governance blogs by John Pearson (and guest bloggers) are archived at ECFA’s Governance of Christ-Centered Organizations Blog. View the index to 14 questions/blogs from the book, Owning Up: The 14 Questions Every Board Member Needs to Ask, by Ram Charan. My favorite question: “Does our board really own the strategy?”


12
Inspirational Books

Here are a dozen inspirational books (and one do-it-yourself option) for you, your family, friends, and co-workers. Here’s one book-a-month for 2026. Some are designed as 30- or 40-day devotionals or for weekend reading. 

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Uncommon Graces

  Issue No. 627 of  Your Weekly Staff Meeting   (Nov. 19, 2024) highlights seven “uncommon graces” that need front-row seats today.  Plus,  ...