Sunday, March 1, 2026

Glad I Didn't Know

 

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Issue No. 630 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting (Dec. 11, 2024) suggests a powerful book with 32 of my favorite stories—a perfect gift book for Christmas. Plus, click here to see book recommendations in all 20 management buckets (core competencies). Also, read my recent review of When Kingdom Light Shines: Stories That Inspire Faith.


In one of my favorite chapters in Glad I Didn’t Know, this Mother Teresa billboard prompted Larry Probus to call his wife on the way to work. “I give up,” he told her!
 
Christmas Gift Idea #2:
Speed Bumps & Life Lessons

Can I be honest with you? I was so pumped about the 60 stories from Mark Ellis in my most recent eNews that I’m wondering: How can I now move on to another book that also requires high praise? Perhaps you have two friends and need two Christmas gift books? If so, here’s my Christmas Gift Idea #2:
 What’s not to like about a “lessons” book? By my count, I have reviewed dozens of books with "lessons" in the title or subtitle. (Examples: Maxwell, Drucker, San Quentin, Pope John Paul II, Panera, Mayo Clinic, and many more.)  

Ready for more life lessons? Where do you land on this continuum?

I WANT TO KNOW NOW...............GLAD I DIDN'T KNOW

Before this week…you’d find me in the “I Want to Know Now” camp. Now 32 powerful first-person stories later, I’m a fully devoted convert to the “Glad I Didn’t Know” spiritual principles that ooze out of Vonna Laue’s life lessons book. This book may change your mind (and your heart).

JIM WEST (Chapter 22), cofounder of The Barnabas Group, was grateful he didn’t know—in advance—that after seeing a throat cancer doctor in 2022, the physician would urge him to go home and prepare his will and estate. “I am glad I didn’t know that God had this speed bump in front of me,” Jim writes in this stunning chapter. 

West says he prayed Joshua 1:9 hundreds of times each week—“a Bible verse I had often heard came alive for me”—while lying in the radiation tube about 45 minutes per session for 35 sessions (not a typo!). He lists four life lessons, including this: “…when people ask me what I could have done to better prepare myself for the battle,” he responds, “Memorize Scripture ahead of time.” 

The book’s format is brilliant—and each short chapter is perfect for spotlighting at your weekly staff meetings in 2025. Leverage the simple outline: a first-person account, followed by “Glad I Didn’t Know” thoughts, then “Life Lessons,” then three “Questions to Consider,” and a Bible verse. (The Scriptures are powerful.)

LARRY PROBUS (Chapter 9) describes being a new Christian and wrestling with the Lord about leaving his business career to become the CFO at World Vision US. He had read a biography about Mother Teresa and in the mid-90s while on a business trip in India, he met Mother Teresa. She asked him, “Tell me why you are in my country?”

Probus sheepishly responded with a very general “we are here on business.” (He did not want to reveal his purpose: to find a distributor for his company’s whiskey brand!) But the contrast of his agenda versus Mother Teresa’s calling was stark. (This is one of my 32 favorite chapters!)

Fast forward. Rich Stearns, president of WVUS at the time, invited Probus to become their CFO. Still wrestling one morning—even though his wife was onboard with the opportunity—he finally said yes. Why? When commuting to work that day, “a new billboard appeared on my daily route with a picture of Mother Teresa—and the words, ‘Reaching Beyond Yourself. Compassion. Pass it On.” He called his wife and said, “I give up. I think God is telling us we should do this.” (And LOL: Some years back, Larry Probus told me he suspected that Rich Stearns had put up that billboard!)

GLAD I DIDN’T KNOW features 16 riveting stories from women and men who have faced incredible challenges—yet unexpected blessings. Plus, author Vonna Laue, a CPA and consultant who specializes in the nonprofit space, weaves her own 16 stunning stories (stunning!) into this soul-grabbing book. 

Rich Stearns, also the author of The Hole in Our Gospel, endorses this book: “Glad I Didn’t Know will life your spirits, make you laugh, and encourage to let go of your fears and entrust them to Jesus. You’ll want to read it at least twice—and maybe twice a year.” I agree! This is also the perfect book to read unhurriedly on weekends (two or three chapters every weekend).

What? LAUGH about life challenges? Yes! Vonna Laue, somehow, sees the humor in her challenging personal stories and God’s touch (Chapter 1: “Quit a Job, Flood a House, Lose a Parent,” and Chapter 21, “You’re Fired!”). Her transparency is as memorable as her humor.
   • While caring for her mother in the hospital for a month, she also cared for her mom’s five chickens, four horses, three cats, and two dogs. “Though, by the time I was done, there were only four chickens. Don’t ask.”
   • When Vonna and her husband informed their two daughters (eight and four at the time), they were moving from Colorado to California, the oldest was upset and “left a note on our pillow that we were not allowed to move her to California and signed it, ‘The FBI.’” The four-year-old’s response? She started packing!

“LOST, LONELY, BROKE!” Edgar Sandoval Sr.’s story is featured in Chapter 3. You’ll see how his background prepared him uniquely for his current day job: president and CEO of World Vision US. “His own experience with hardship came at age 18, when he returned alone to the U.S. with only $50 in his pocket.” The verse for this story: Proverbs 3:5-6.

FRANCIS CHAN’S ROPE. In Chapter 15, “Gone Too Soon,” Laue shares the very sad story about her brother-in-law’s passing at age 42. She writes, “I’m glad I didn’t know that planning a funeral is like planning a wedding in four days…” One of her “lessons learned” features the poignant Francis Chan video with a long rope (aka “eternity”). View the video here:


Vonna Laue suggests you view this picture of today versus eternity in this sermon clip from Francis Chan (3.5 minutes).

CHIP WATKINSIn Chapter 19, Chip Watkins shares that he’s glad he didn’t know that his son, Mark, would die unexpectedly in 2015. If he had known, he reflects, “How you might dread the passing of each day, knowing you are one day closer to the death of your beloved!?” He adds, “With that in mind, I believe God is gracious and merciful in withholding this kind of exact knowledge from us. He gives us grace to walk with Him each day, day after day.”

One lesson learned: “Grieve well.” Watkins writes about remembering. “We have a leather jacket he once wore and that I occasionally wear. His brother now owns the car that once belonged to Mark.” This prompted me to remember the clip at the end of the documentary, “It All Begins With a Song” (start at 1 hour, 6 minutes in) on the writing of “I Drive Your Truck.”
 
MORE FAVORITE STORIES. Did I mention…my 32 favorite stories? Oh, my.

• LAURA WHITLEY’s story in Chapter 28, “Caring for Family,” prompted an out-loud “WOW!” when I read her soul-touching narrative about her father, a Marine, who shared the Marine motto: “The difficult we do immediately, the impossible takes a little longer.” You will not forget this story or the verse: Deuteronomy 31:8. (Note: Several very meaningful song lyrics are featured in these stories. Chapter 28 sent me back to a favorite of mine: “When I Go Home.”)

•  HEY, DAD! Follow JOHN REYNOLDS in his fast-rising career in South Africa, “with a macho roar, a sporty new Porsche convertible pulled up next to us.” His six-year-old son then asked, “Is that your next company car, Dad?” Read how that question changed the trajectory of his life. 

• “HERO COMPLEX.” One of two “name withheld” chapters, “Painful Realizations” recounts how a public health researcher living abroad has learned to “lay aside pride and the role I thought I should play in the Kingdom.” She faced down her “hero complex,” but notes, “It was surely an exhausting way to learn humility, but I am so much better off for it.”

• JERRY WHITE writes in “From Military to Missions,” Chapter 24, “I am glad I did not fully know the tensions in the work that I would face.” White served as president of The Navigators for 15 years. “Part of not knowing opened an avenue of trust and faith that no strategic plan could achieve.” Read why, “Suddenly, I was not a PhD, general, and president. I was a broken, hurting parent and follower of Jesus. A friend, not just their leader.” (Read Mary White’s account of the tragedy they faced.)

• BOARD SERVICE? I especially appreciate Vonna Laue’s chapter on being invited to serve on the board of World Vision US. She wondered if she would fit in. Around the table “there was a former governor, a CFO of a major US corporation, leaders of national and international ministries, PhDs and MDs, and, and . . . you get the picture.” Today she serves as board chair! 

She asks readers this question: “Is there any place you are holding back because you don’t believe you are _____ enough?” (Fill in the blank: good enough, smart enough, connected enough…)

WHEW! I don’t have room to share Stan Reiff’s story (“God Will Never…”) or the two questions his girlfriend (now his wife) asked him. This is my favorite chapter (along with the 31 other stories!) Order two books: one for you and one for a special friend or family member.

TO ORDER FROM AMAZON, click on the title for Glad I Didn’t Know: Lessons Learned Through Life’s Challenges and Unexpected Blessings, by Vonna Laue. And thanks to the author for sending me a review copy.


 
YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) Vonna Laue urges you to create your own “Glad I Didn’t Know” list that highlights your challenges and unexpected blessings. I’d suggest you title this, “Chapter 33” and list a favorite Bible verse that gives you comfort in the hard times. See also my review of When Kingdom Light Shines with this suggestion: After you’ve read all 60 short stories (or featured four or five stories at future weekly staff meetings), then host a gathering and call it, “Chapter 61.”

2) Review the Scripture verses highlighted in each chapter and keep them handy (see Jim West's story above). You, or a friend or family member, may need them. Memorize this one: “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9)

UP NEXT! Watch for my review of “Christmas Gift Idea #3”—The Spy and the Traitor: The Greatest Espionage Story of the Cold War, by Ben Macintyre. “The best true spy story I have ever read,” wrote John Le CarrĂ©.
 
    
Mastering 100 Must-Read Books
Part 18: The Final Four


Book #100 of 100: 
Experiencing God


For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Book #100 in Mastering 100 Must-Read Books. (Yes! This is the final book in the series. Stay tuned for a new series in the next issue of Your Weekly Staff Meeting.)
Experiencing God (2021 Edition): 
Knowing and Doing the Will of God

by Henry Blackaby (1935-2024),
Richard Blackaby, and Claude King

 
Books #97 through #100 spotlight “the final four” books in this recommended volume of 100 must-read books. The authors write, “If Balaam lived in our formula-driven day, perhaps he would have written a book, Donkeys for Dummies…”
    • Order from Amazon.
    • Listen on Libro (11 hours, 3 minutes). Note: This audio version is from the 2009 book revision.
    • Download the 100 Must-Read Books list (from John and Jason Pearson).

“Please Cancel My Request!” In Mark 2, when the four entrepreneurial friends of the paraplegic man brought their friend to Jesus for healing, Jesus—instead—forgave the man’s sins. Meditating on that passage prompted Henry Blackaby to weep and pray, “O God, if I ever give You a request and You have more to give me than I am asking, please cancel my request!”
 

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The Culturally Conscious Board

 

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Issue No. 620 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting (Sept. 9, 2024) features a hot-off-the-press book on board governance that CHANGED my thinking. Plus, click here to see book recommendations in all 20 management buckets (core competencies).

I love this book—and it changed my thinking. But, really, the publisher should have sent along yellow highlighters. Or just to save us the time—they could have highlighted every sentence!

 
“Bylaws, Schmylaws!”

If you thumbed through my well-worn copy of The Culturally Conscious Board, you’d likely comment, “John! You’ve underlined something on almost every page!”

That’s right. The publisher should have packaged a highlighter and a pen with each book. With just 134 pages (no filler!), this book absolutely changed my thinking about board governance. Really. If you serve on a board, or plan to, this is a must-read:
 
The Culturally Conscious Board:
Setting the Boardroom Table for Impact

by Jennifer M. Jukanovich and Russell W. West (Sept. 3, 2024)
 
Leveraging the story of Crystal, a new board member at her first meeting of the fictitious City Farm board, the authors invite us inside this dysfunctional boardroom. (What? There are dysfunctional boards?) Every chapter begins with this continuing story of boardroom confusion, chaos, and a commonplace culture. Along the way, the authors poke, prod, and coach using real-life boardroom conflicts.
   • “How dare she? Doesn’t she know you aren’t supposed to speak at your first board meeting?”
   • The City Farm board’s cardinal rule was even more rigid: “Thou shalt not speak as a new board member for at least six meetings.”
   • “When your table culture can be reduced to the sum of all the minutes, roll calls, old business and seconded motions, then that is the only level of consciousness your board expects of itself.”
   • “Routine lulls into inattention. The trivial and critical get equal time.”

At one disastrous board meeting, Phil, the board chair, shockingly orders Crystal: “Calm down!” The authors add, “Phil had picked the wrong night to go parental on her. As he continued to mansplain the merits of the deal and what so-and-so said and to whom, Crystal retreated internally to have a meeting with both her tongue and her temper.”

The storytelling and the writing is superb—exceeded only by the depth of this important topic: the culturally conscious board. Jukanovich and West, both experienced leaders and board coaches, write, “We think of consciousness as a heightened focus provoked by our surroundings and experiences, enabling us to predict and participate with integrity in the world around us.”

This week, I emailed several experienced nonprofit leaders and consultants—and confessed that had I read this book years ago, my standard response on questions about “boardroom diversity” would have been dramatically different. This book changed my thinking. It’s never too late to change, right?

Bruce McNicol recommended I read The Culturally Conscious Board. I trust his judgment, but I wondered if this was just one more book on all things DEI. (Companies are now rethinking diversity, equity, and inclusion.) But then I was reminded about my favorite quote from Charlie Munger (1924-2023), “I never allow myself to have an opinion on anything unless I know the other side’s argument better than they do.” 

The authors—gently and persuasively—enriched my thinking and my worldview on what they call “Conscious Culture,” what’s ON the table (agenda, minutes, budget, and strategy) versus “Unconscious Culture,” what’s OFF the table (dependencies, triangles, groupthink, and gatekeeping).

What’s at stake? “Boards operate at half capacity when only at the transactional level that conscious culture tends to provide…” The authors note, “Boards operate at deep capacity governance, driven by a view of integrity that includes all that is conscious (mentionable) and unconscious (unmentionable).”

Who should read this book? Jukanovich and West describe their audience: “So, whether you:
   • are a fumbling, eagle-eyed start-up,
   • said yes but are unsure where to start,
   • will ever get the chance to attend a board training event,
   • are a seasoned board member suddenly in the hot seat,
   • wonder if you are doing any good by sitting in late-night meetings, bickering over a dollar,
   • are tired of constantly being the guest in a story that doesn’t appreciate yours,
we say, this book is written for you.”

With wisdom and wit, the authors describe the problem of boardroom dysfunction and mediocre outcomes—but they don’t leave us hanging. Crystal’s story leads us into “The Board Placemat”—a very helpful one-pager focused on “Five Essential Conversations” and fleshed out over five meaty chapters on Identity, Intention, Impact, Invitation, and Investment. (Click here to download the placemat.)


Download “The Board Placemat” tool from the authors’ website and discern when and how to use these convicting 25 true-or-false questions at future board meetings and board retreats.

“The Board Placemat” features five true-or-false questions for each of the five must-have conversations at your boardroom table. Each chapter dives deeper. Examples:

IDENTITY:
• “We make time to hear board members’ personal stories.” (True or false?)
• “What are the marks of heroes your organization celebrates?”
• “Who does your board turn to during hard conversations?"

INTENTION
• “We are convinced our theory of change makes a difference." (True or false?)
• “Could you draw your theory of change on a napkin…?”
• “…is everyone clear about what must be measured and why?”

INVITATION
• “We glean stakeholder feedback to lift our cultural blindfolds.” (True or false?)
• “How is the executive session used to ensure everyone has an opportunity to use their voice?”
• “How do you understand ‘diverse’ candidate pools? What voices are missing from the table?”

INVESTMENT
• “We model our missional engagement by participating financially.” (True or false?)
• “A board that has 100% member giving is the gold standard. How does your board encourage this?”

IMPACT
• “We harvest learning after events, milestones, fails and wins.” (True or false?)
• “Notice what your board celebrates and when.”
• “What are the feedback loops in the strategic planning process, as well as in board meetings?”

One of the more engaging conflicts in the book centered on a board assignment. “In this story, there were rumblings from the community about how decisions were really made. The leader forced an uncomfortable conversation on a divided board. He put the matter on the table by requiring all board members to read a book together. All would be invited to respond. This is where things got a bit messy.” (You’ll need to read this yourself, so no spoiler alert.)

Jukanovich and West note, “…it’s not the mentionable that cause the most problems. It’s rather the unmentionable aspects of unconscious culture that strengthen and weaken in their influence as long as they remain unnamed.” They add, “Wouldn’t you want to know where denial or negligence has caused culture to be a liability?”

I’ve always sought to inspire boards to be lifelong learners and to delegate their reading by inviting one board member per meeting to spotlight a board governance book. So…I loved that board chair’s assignment (but not the conflict that ensured!).

Now I have a problem! For ECFA’s governance blog, I wrote short reviews of 18 Best Board Books.” Now, I should probably edit those with two options:
• Option #1: Read 18 “Best Board Books” and add #19, The Culturally Conscious Board.
• Option #2: Skip the first 18 and just read The Culturally Conscious Board.

You’ll find practical alignment between The Culturally Conscious Board and other board books and training experiences. Examples:
• “Humility’s path requires attention and courage. It requires conflict even. Humility anticipates it can be wrong.” (See Book #18).
• On the critical role of the board chair, “These instances can sometimes resemble hostage situations, where the emotional tone of the group is dictated by the angriest or saddest person present. In these moments, true leadership is required." (See Book #12.)
• Note: Bob Andringa endorsed this book and his governance books also align with The Culturally Conscious Board. (See Book #10.)
• And…what a delight, as part of the color commentary on integrating values, to read of the authors’ appreciation for the values in Joy at Work, by Dennis Bakke (Book #21 in Mastering 100 Must-Read Books and my 2006 book-of-the-year).

In 134 pages, there’s not much space for theoretical musings. You’ll appreciate that and much more. The authors comment, “We learned of a board chair who remarked, ‘bylaws, schmylaws’ upon being questioned about financial discrepancies in staff reports.” Hence, they recommend helpful tools for what they call the board’s only job: to make decisions.

I know my friend and coauthor, Dan Busby (1941-2022) would have loved The Culturally Conscious Board. Our book, ECFA Tools and Templates for Effective Board Governance: Time-Saving Solutions for Your Board, will also be helpful when you’re ready to focus on putting the “unmentionables” on the table. Examples:
   • Tool #2: Board Nominee Suggestion Form (Avoid the “Friend of a Friend of Cousin Eddie Syndrome”)
   • Tool #5: The Board’s Annual Self-Assessment Survey (Look in the Mirror!)

Did I mention that this book changed my thinking? You won’t forget the metaphors, the helpful charts, and the zingers: mama’s bread, spinach, mirrors, parking lot politicking, revolving-door recruitment stories, tokenized checklists, and this: “As the saying goes, people do not quit jobs; they quit managers. We would add: they quit cultures too.”

TO ORDER FROM AMAZON, click on the title for The Culturally Conscious Board: Setting the Boardroom Table for Impact, by Jennifer M. Jukanovich and Russell W. West. And thanks to the authors for sending me a review copy.


BONUS: Click here to listen to (or read) the “On Board” podcast interview with Jennifer Jukanovich. And click here for several short videos with co-author Russell West (on LinkedIn).
 
 YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) The authors of The Culturally Conscious Board write that “A board that has 100% member giving is the gold standard.” (I agree…but I encourage boards to inspire board members with a platinum standard“Generous Giving.” Here, a board member affirms he or she has prioritized their giving so the organization is one of the “Top-3” recipients for the board member's annual giving. For more details, download “Tool #21: Board Member Annual Affirmation Statement.” (Note: It's not about wealth. Board members of any income bracket can do this.) What's our board's policy on board member generosity?

2) Here’s a link to short reviews of “18 Best Board Books.” What’s the best book your board has read—together—in the last 12 months? Is lifelong learning a staff and board priority? Here’s an idea: “Invest ‘10 Minutes for Governance’ in Every Board Meeting.” (Read Lesson 39, Lessons From the Nonprofit Boardroom.”)
 
    
Mastering 100 Must-Read Books
Part 16: Keys to Memorable Speaking and Writing


Book #90 of 100: Keys to Great Writing


For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Book #90 in Mastering 100 Must-Read Books

Keys to Great Writing:
(Revised and Expanded)
Mastering the Elements of Composition and Revision

by Stephen Wilbers

 
Books #87 through #91 spotlight five memorable books to enrich your speaking and writing competencies. According to Stephen Wilbers, “Level 4” writing (the best) is “to write with such extraordinary insight and beauty that people will be reading what I have written one hundred years from now.” (How about…a week from now?)
    • Order from AmazonKeys to Great Writing
    • Download the 100 Must-Read Books list (from John and Jason Pearson).

The author's five keys to great writing will surprise you: Economy, Precision, Action, Music, and Personality.  Hum along: “One of the most important things you can do to sharpen your style is to reawaken yourself to the sound of your words, to tune your ears to the rhythm and cadence and flow of your language. It is in this context that you should ask, How can I make this music more pleasing to my readers? What techniques can I learn from accomplished writers? What techniques can I discover on my own?”
 

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Saturday, February 28, 2026

Next Level Nonprofit

 


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Issue No. 625 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting (Oct. 24, 2024) warns you that Next Level Nonprofit might create some angst initially—but it will be well worth the read. Plus, click here to see book recommendations in all 20 management buckets (core competencies).


Reading Next Level Nonprofit prompted me to rethink my Top-20 books of all time. This is a MUST-READ. Tell me what you think!
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Warning! This 20-Question Assessment Might Be Risky!

When our son, Jason, and I published Mastering 100 Must-Read Books in 2022, today’s book had not yet been written—so now in 2024, we have a problem. Should we edit the title so it reads “Mastering 101 Must-Read Books?” Or…maybe I’ll go out on a limb here and add it to my Top-20 book recommendations (see Resource 5.2). Either way…if you understand the power and the importance of nonprofit organizations, this is a must-read:


This book is a complete package—and packed with practical next steps. How practical? The author recommends you ask your “Direct Supports” (his term for “direct reports”) this question from Kim Scott, “What could I do or stop doing that would make it easier to work with me.” (Warning! Don’t ask this question at home!)

You’ll find even more gut-checks in this compact book—including a 20-question organizational assessment. (Warning to all inflated egos.) For each question, rank where you are as a team on a scale of 1 to 5:
   1 = Yea, we really need help on that.
   2 = We’re not good at this one.
   3 = It could go either way.
   4 = We’re doin’ pretty good on this one.
   5 = We are rockin’ this!

Go ahead—rank your organization:
   • Q6. “Everyone in our organization knows the most important things we need to accomplish over the next quarter to be on track to achieve our one-year goals.”
   • Q7. “Every team member has access to a simplified version of our storytelling strategy, and they understand how we are communicating with our core audience(s).”
   • Q9. “We are excellent at attracting and retaining the most talented team members.”

Are you gutsy enough to answer all 20 questions in this organizational assessment? If so, click here—and good luck!

I could have—and would have—used this brilliant book in my nonprofit leadership years and also in my consulting/coaching years—had it been written back then. Now today? My best suggestion: order enough copies for your “direct supports” and your board chair.

The “operating system” is organized into four complementary components:
   1. Team Unity
   2. Compelling Vision
   3. Right Strategy
   4. Disciplined Execution

I confess. I read Chapter 10 in the “Disciplined Execution” section first. “The Weekly” aligns beautifully with this eNews and my Meetings Bucket—and Lambert gives away the store revealing how he and his leadership team conduct purposeful weekly meetings. They are evangelists for weekly meetings. (Preach it, friends!)

“The Weekly is the backbone of implementing the Next Level Nonprofit system,” Lambert writes. “We created the term ‘The Weekly’ for this critical, 90-minute meeting with your Executive Leadership Team, because it MUST take place on the same day and time every single week. Every leader must be present, without any distractions (no emailing, texting, or doing other work during The Weekly). Always start on time. Always end on time. As the expression goes, ‘Early is on time, on time is late, and late is unacceptable!’”

With a nod to Patrick Lencioni’s Death by Meeting wisdom, the Next Level Nonprofit system details how to conduct weekly, quarterly, and yearly meetings and off-sites, plus info on leveraging “The State of the Organization Gatherings.” (You do all this, right?) Here’s their 10-minute video detailing the agenda for the 90-minute weekly meeting:


View this 10-minute video on “How to Run the Weekly” and learn how key team members describe each segment (and the time allotted): Highs & Lows, Focus Time, Scoreboard Review, The W3s (What, Who, When), Quarterly Priorities, Opportunities/Next Steps, and Wrap-Up.

Lambert suggests you use the final five minutes of your 90-minute weekly meeting to summarize three things:
   • Recap the W3s (What, Who, When)
   • What info needs to leave the room?
   • How did we do as a team today?

That last question reminded me of the short feedback exercise I learned from a client a few years back, “Five-Finger Feedback.”  See Tool #4 in ECFA Tools and Templates for Effective Board Governance: Time-Saving Solutions for Your Board.

ORGANIZATIONAL OPERATING SYSTEM. When you read Lambert’s story, you’ll discover that—like many inexperienced CEOs—he couldn’t keep up with the needs and the growth of Life Remodeled, the nonprofit he founded in 2010 in Detroit. He intuitively knew he needed an “organizational operating system”—but one designed for nonprofits. Thus—Next Level Nonprofit was born (the book and consulting) with three audiences in mind:
   • Nonprofit leaders
   • Future nonprofit founders
   • Generous givers and raving fans of nonprofits

When other nonprofit leaders asked Lambert about his “secret sauce”—how Life Remodeled had grown from 2010 to overseeing more than $43.5 million invested in Detroit neighborhoods between 2014-2022—he realized there was an opportunity and a responsibility to share the applicable principles of his “operating system.” (View his 2015 TEDx Talk here and a recent interview here.)

This book is so, so encouraging. It will give you hope! With little background for taking on a massive and ongoing project in Detroit, Chris Lambert launched Life Remodeled after serving as a community organizer in Liberia, and pastoring a church in Detroit. He writes, “…at the time, our church had only $8,000 in the bank, fewer than 200 members, and no connections to people of influence.”

Lambert's faith journey is remarkable and he enjoys telling colleagues: “I intentionally founded Life Remodeled as a non-religious organization; however, as a person of deep faith, my first response is usually to give all the credit to God. When this response is met with eye rolls or follow-up questions, I share about our ‘no-so-secret sauce.’” (He then talks about their organizational operating system—specifically designed for a nonprofit.)

I urge you to buy at least five copies of this book—to go deeper on:
   • Why Lambert uses a “3 strikes” approach with team members. (And speaking of strikes, Go Dodgers!)
   • Why many 360 review attempts fail miserably (Hint: lack of humility at the senior team level).
   • The 38 questions on the Annual 360 CEO Review! (Warning! Will your CEO dare share this with your board and staff?)
   •  “For Coaches and Direct Supports, I stand by the principle of praising publicly and critiquing privately. The only exception to this rule are the CEO and COO.” Read why he urges all team members to give him “constructive criticism on the spot”—even when others are in the room. (I warned you, right?!)
   • (Did I mention he gives away the store?) See pages 88-89 for a sample job description for their Chief Development Officer.
   • Core Value Trophy. Read how Lambert keeps core values top-of-mind with quarterly awards to team members, nominated by the senior team, demonstrating—with a compelling story—how that team member exhibited the core value. 
   • Book-of-the-Quarter. Imagine—a team that values reading and listening to that quarter’s assigned book. They do this! (Some awards include $50 Amazon gift cards.)
   • Ideal Balance of Affirmation and Challenge. See the 2x2 on page 101: High and Low Affirmation and High and Low Challenge. The “high/high” is labeled, “Thriving Culture.” But maybe…your people are in the “Stressed Culture” quadrant?
   • Hoopla! Bucket. I thought I had already included all the good ideas in my Hoopla! Bucket. I was wrong! Lambert lists six fabulous ideas in the section, “Trust-Building Activities.” My new favorite: “The Book About Me.” 

“You are supernaturally informed

that you’re going to die in the next 24 hours, and you’re given the opportunity to come up with the title of a book that will be written about your life. What do you want the title of this book to be, and how do you want the Amazon description to read?”

ONE OR TWO PAGES?
   • 2-Page Strategy Document. David Schmidt, my consultant friend, mentored me on the power of a one-page strategic plan placement. Chris Lambert prefers two pages and I’ll allow that (as if he needs my ok!). See Chapter 8, for his page one, “Where Are We Going?” and view his strategy document here, including his page two, “How Do We Get There?”

What else do I love about this book? The alignment. Next Level Nonprofit aligns beautifully with the business literature and gurus—but also adapts that wisdom to the in-the-trenches messy world of nonprofits. You’ll appreciate numerous references to Jim Collins, SMART Goals, the priority of execution, Lencioni’s work, organizational charts, Scaling Up, and The Power of Moments.

Listen to the final chapter, “Conclusion” (3 minutes, 44 seconds), on Libro. And remember—I warned you!

TO ORDER FROM AMAZON, click on the title for Next Level Nonprofit: Build A Dream Team + Increase Lasting Impact, by Chris Lambert. Listen on Libro (4 hours, 9 minutes). And thanks to the author for sending me a review copy.


 
YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
One of the 20 questions in the Next Level Nonprofit assessment includes three sub-questions. Rank each on a scale of 1 to 5 (5 is high): “If I asked everyone in our organization these three simple questions, I would receive nearly the same responses from each team member.”
#1. What does our organization do? 
#2. Why do we do it? 
#3. How do we do it?
 
    
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Book #95 of 100: Managing Transitions

For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Book #95 in Mastering 100 Must-Read Books

Managing Transitions: 
Making the Most of Change

by William Bridges

 
Books #92 through #96 spotlight five helpful books for nonprofit CEOs, senior staff, and board members. When this book was first published in 1991, it was recognized as the definitive guide to dealing with change. Now one million books sold later, it still holds that position. If it’s not in your organization’s resource library, it should be.
    • Read my review.
    • Order from Amazon.
    • Listen on Libro (6 hours, 15 minutes)
    • Download the 100 Must-Read Books list (from John and Jason Pearson).

William Bridges identifies three critical steps in managing transitions. Step 2: Enter the neutral zone (the no man’s land between the old reality and the new). Some will abort in this zone, not wanting the pain. But it’s also the place where creativity, renewal and development will often occur. “The neutral zone is thus a dangerous and opportune place, and it is the very core of the transition process.”


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Faith for the Curious

 

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Issue No. 622 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting predicts that the hot-off-the-press book, Faith for the Curious, will be a Very. Important. Book. Curious? Plus, click here to see book recommendations in all 20 management buckets (core competencies).


Mark Matlock, author of the new book, Faith for the Curious, writes, “The institutional church has needed an update: the pandemic offered an opportunity to have a massive garage sale."

 
Massive Garage Sale Needed at Your Church?

Mark Matlock doesn’t hold back! Whew! He writes, “COVID-19 gave the church an opportunity that we likely haven’t fully leaned into. I conducted hundreds of hours of webinars during the pandemic, many with concerned church leaders wanting to know when we would get ‘back to normal.’ I implored leaders to take advantage of the moment.”

He adds, “The institutional church has needed an update: the pandemic offered an opportunity to have a massive garage sale. Instead of ‘getting back to normal,’ I argued that this was a chance to create a much-needed new normal—one better equipped to meet the challenges of today.” This is a must-read:
 
OLD WINESKINS GAME! Mark Matlock is one creative guy! During the pandemic, he “…facilitated numerous workshops with church and nonprofit leaders, and one of the games we played was ‘keep it, curb it, refresh it.’ Never before has the church had an opportunity to ‘curb’ so many relics we have accumulated over time.”

“Enough with putting new wine into old wineskins. Let’s start thinking about what new things God is interested in doing through us.”

You could just stop reading—right here—and facilitate an entire day with your team using the Mark Matlock exercise on your products, programs, and services:
   • KEEP IT!
   • CURB IT!
   • REFRESH IT!


(Or, if you prefer a few more instructions, try the “Stars, Hearts, Money Tree, and Stop Sign” exercise from the book, Nonprofit Sustainability. See the mini-review below.)

But back to the big idea of Faith for the CuriousMatlock has two aims for his book:
1) “The first is to help us understand who the Spiritually Curious are in a deeper way.” He adds, “These people differ from each other in many ways, but curiosity is always a distinguishing factor that draws them together.”
2) “The second goal is to help us make a shift in the way we are personally and collectively practicing Christianity. We have a lot to gain from becoming more curious ourselves, from realizing there may be something we are missing in our own spiritual life that needs tending to, and from embracing the idea that we can’t take people somewhere we haven’t been.”

He adds, “Spiritual curiosity isn’t a fire to be extinguished; it’s a garden to be cultivated.”

How effective are you at communicating across the wide spectrum of spiritual views? Matlock leverages Barna’s research and identifies important segments that your church and your own observations may be missing. One helpful chart, “Supernaturalism x Curiosity” illustrates the “Curiosity” continuum (Low to High) with the “Supernaturalism” continuum (No Belief to Strong Belief), and features these segments: Naturalists, Curious Skeptics, Spiritually Curious, and Practicing Christians. Examples:

The Spiritually Curious: “These are adults who are not part of the Christian church (meaning, they are non-Christians or Nonpracticing Christians), yet they believe there is a real spiritual dimension and show high levels of curiosity.”

The Curious Skeptics: “These non-Christians and Nonpracticing Christians also show high levels of curiosity. When it comes to spirituality, big questions loom; they are uncertain if there is a spiritual dimension, or they believe there is no way to know for sure.”

While reading Faith for the CuriousI sensed that this is a Very. Important. Book. David Kinnamon, CEO of Barna Group, writes in the foreword, “Get this: approximately three-quarters of adults in America say they believe in a higher power, and a majority say they’re interested in exploring spirituality.” 

Describing Matlock’s expertise as a “data storyteller,” Kinnamon notes that “Mark authored this book under the Barna brand, which means he included reliable charts, infographics, and statistics, and he unpacks them for those who share our love of a good data story.” (The charts and stats are both eye-opening and soul-opening.)

Kinnamon assures us, “But this isn’t your typical quantitative Barna research book.” So he urges readers and leaders to “…pause for a moment and ask God to meet you where you are in your own faith life: to humbly ask him to soften your heart so it will be open and receptive to what you’re about to experience in the pages that follow here.” (Who writes a foreword—with humility—and asks you to pray before reading the book? Who does that? Oh, my.)

Kinnamon, by the way, is the coauthor with Matlock, of Faith for Exiles: 5 Ways for a New Generation to Follow Jesus in Digital Babylon (read my review). That book provided “hopeful news and handrails to help guide our own kids and other young adults on how to cultivate a resilient faith.” Matlock builds on that research and Faith for the Curious focuses on “this current cultural moment.” Kinnamon writes: “Massive receptivity to the possibility of God exists today.” He adds, “We’re living in a cultural moment full of enormous evangelistic opportunities.”

I can’t possibly showcase the depth, width, and wisdom of Faith for the Curious in one review. I hope you’ll read it—or at least delegate your reading to someone on your team. More teasers:

INSIGHTFUL. Matlock’s commentary on “post-Christian culture” is so, so helpful as he unpacks “A Christmas Sermon for Pagans,” by C.S. Lewis (1898-1963). Lewis, author of more than 30 books including The Screwtape Letters, wrote that “there are three kinds of people in the world.” Lewis described them: “(1) Those who are sick and don’t know it (the post-Christians). (2) Those who are sick and know it (Pagans). (3) Those who have found the cure.”

JOY. Matlock: “To journey with a Curious Skeptic is one of the greatest joys we can have as a believer. This unique type of skeptic can often help us deepen our own faith, because we find we have to trust Jesus as we help them do the same.”

LESSONS LEARNED. Matlock is pretty transparent in his final chapter, “Lessons Learned.” Here are two of his six lessons:
• “God is at work in places where I don’t think to look.”
• “There are fewer people hostile to Christianity than I thought.”

Did I mention? This is a Very. Important. Book. Now...do you need a garage sale at your church or organization? Keep it? Curb it? Refresh it?
 
TO ORDER FROM AMAZON, click on the title for Faith for the Curious: How an Era of Spiritual Openness Shapes the Way We Live and Help Others Follow Jesus, by Mark Matlock. Listen on Libro (5 hours, 22 minutes).



GENEROUS! Wes Taber, Global Ambassador for Life in Messiah, emailed me last week. He had just forwarded Your Weekly Staff Meeting eNews to a team member—with a very generous offer. Wes said he would cover the cost of any book recommended in my eNews—if that staff member, or any other “LIFEr,” would commit to two requirements:
   1) Read the book.
   2) “Report back…with two things they found helpful and one thing they are putting into practice immediately.”


That’s both brilliant and generous! Wes Taber also noted that the book reviews in Your Weekly Staff Meeting “are more than worth the cost of subscribing (it’s free!).” (Thanks, Wes! LOL!)

 
 YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) Have you reflected deeply on “curiosity” in our culture? Molly Fletcher writes an entire chapter on “curiosity” in her book, Dynamic Drive (read my review). I’m also curious—wondering how much fun it would be to host Mark Matlock and Mark Ellis for dinner at the San Clemente Pier! (I explain my dinner offer in my review of the book by Mark Ellis, The House at Channing and Moonsail. Ellis describes how a friend piqued his curiosity to read a book by Josh McDowell.)

2) In the Customer Bucket, we highlight “The Engel Scale,” named by an appreciative grad student who studied under Prof. Jim Engel. (Read What's Gone Wrong With the Harvest? by James F. Engel and Wilbert Norton.) The scale begins with a -8 (a person with an awareness of a supreme being, but no effective knowledge of the gospel). It moves down to a -1 (repentance and faith in Christ), and then to a +1, +2, +3, +4, +5 and beyond (demonstrating growth in being a Christ-follower). QUESTION: How are we communicating to the spectrum of spiritual views? See Matlock’s chart contrasting “Curiosity” with “Supernaturalism” and these segments: Naturalists, Curious Skeptics, Spiritually Curious, and Practicing Christians.
 
    
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Book #92 of 100: Nonprofit Sustainability

For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Book #92 in Mastering 100 Must-Read Books

Nonprofit Sustainability: 
Making Strategic Decisions for Financial Viability

by Jeanne Bell, Jan Masaoka, and Steve Zimmerman

 
Books #92 through #96 spotlight five helpful books for nonprofit CEOs, senior staff, and board members. Nonprofit Sustainability’s “Dual Bottom Line” matrix map addresses mission impact and financial sustainability—with four easy-to-remember icons.
    • Read my review.
    • Order from AmazonNonprofit Sustainability
    • Download the 100 Must-Read Books list (from John and Jason Pearson).

Use the matrix in the book and plot your products, programs, and services in the appropriate quadrant: 
   • Stars: High Mission Impact, High Profitability
   • Hearts: High Mission Impact, Low Profitability
   • Money Tree: Low Mission Impact, High Profitability
   • Stop Sign: Low Mission Impact, Low Profitability
Gut check! What are you going to do this month about those programs in the “Stop Sign” category?

For more, read “Focus on Mission Impact and Sustainability. The ‘dual bottom line’ equips boards to address dead horses and sacred cows (or goats).” Lesson 23 is featured in the book, Lessons From the Nonprofit Boardroom: 40 Insights for Better Board Meetings (2nd Edition), by Dan Busby and John Pearson. Order from Amazon. Read the blog by Steve Moore. Read the lesson on ECFA’s website.


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