Wednesday, October 1, 2025

Your Weekly Staff Meeting | John Pearson Associates

 

CEO Excellence (March 22, 2022)

Issue No. 510 of 
Your Weekly Staff Meeting 
highlights a potential 2022 book-of-the-year (just published this month). The three McKinsey senior partners suggest you create a “Hall of Failures” and organize funerals for failed projects! And this reminder: click here to download free resources from the 20 management buckets (core competencies).
 

The co-authors of CEO Excellence note that some companies create a “Hall of Failures” and organize funerals for failed projects!

Will You Read 1 Book or 20 Books?

Yikes! According to the new book, CEO Excellence“Thirty percent of Fortune 500 CEOs last fewer than three years, and two out of five new CEOs are perceived to be failing within eighteen months.”

If you’re a CEO—perhaps slipping off that perilous perch—take two aspirins and call me in the morning. Or…just read this remarkably well-researched book by three senior partners at McKinsey & Company. Subtitled, “The Six Mindsets That Distinguish the Best Leaders from the Rest,” CEO Excellence is an early contender for my 2022 book-of-the-year honors.

2 Options for Studying the BEST Leaders:
• Option 1: Read 20 leadership books (see my suggestions below).
• Option 2: Read CEO Excellence (the equivalent of 20 books).

MY TOP-20 LIST. Here are my Top-20 takeaways from CEO Excellence:

#1. EXCEPTIONALLY PRACTICAL. Trust me—this outperforms any book you’ve read recently. I made 51 notes, but I could have made 251. Jam-packed with serious CEO thinking—the authors looked at 2,400 CEOs of public company, then zeroed in on 67—using their criteria for the “best leaders.” (The appendix includes 36 pages of CEO bios.) After “in-depth, multihour interviews,” this book popped out. You’ll love it.

#2. MANAGE BY MILESTONES. The book’s “six mindsets” launches with the Direction-Setting Mindset, “Be Bold.” In Chapter 3, CEOs are encouraged to “Act Like an Outsider” when allocating resources. Jamie Dimon, CEO of JPMorgan Chase (who is quoted often), urges CEOs to “manage by milestones (not annual budgets).” The authors note, “In essence, Dimon’s approach is never to let an annual budget cycle get in the way of making good business decisions.”

#3. CORPORATE FUNERALS & HALL OF FAILURES! In the section, “Kill as Much as You Create,” the book describes how savvy CEOs eliminate sacred cows and dead horses. One CEO “set up a ‘Hall of Failures’ where the company organized funerals for failed projects. The idea was to show that trying and failing would be honored as long as lessons were learned and shared…” The ceremony also communicated “that no more resources would be allocated to the effort—that the projects were dead.” 

#4. PRACTICAL WORKSHEETS. In my first browse through CEO Excellence, I discovered three practical worksheets in the appendix (nine pages)—worth the price of the book:
• Worksheet 1: My CEO Mandate: What is the degree of change you aspire to lead? (Rate the six mindsets on a scale of 1 to 5.)
• Worksheet 2: How Am I Leading Today? (Rate how you’re currently leading, within the six mindsets: Challenged? Able? Excellent?)
• Worksheet 3: Prioritizing Improvement Areas and Related Actions (five assessments/action steps)

#5. ENGAGE THE BOARD (Mindset #4). The worksheet asks CEOs to rate their engagement with the board in three areas: Relationships, Capabilities, Meetings. You can rate your appropriate involvement in board meetings on a three-level continuum. (Hint: Excellent CEOs help the board focus on the future.) 

#6. EXIT BOARD MEMBERS. Jamie Dimon, when he was the new CEO of a contentious merger, amazingly inspired the two merged boards (22 members) to exit eight members to a more workable board size of 14. Read how he approached this delicate dance in the section, “Tap the Wisdom of Elders.” McKinsey’s research notes: “A full 82 percent of executives think at least one member of their company’s board should be replaced, citing reasons such as diminishing performance due to advanced age, serving on too many boards, and reluctance to challenge management.”

#7. HEART PADDLES. In Chapter 2, “Strategy Practice,” we learn the importance of “applying ‘heart paddles’ to create a series of performance-enhancing S-curves.” Why keep an eye on your organization’s downside? “The average lifetime of an organization in 1935 was ninety years, in 2015 it was eighteen years.”



#8. DO WHAT ONLY YOU CAN DO. There are three convicting chapters for CEOs on the Personal Effectiveness Mindset, “Do What Only You Can Do.” Did you know that when he was “urged to spend longer stretches of time on his masterpiece The Last Supper, Leonardo da Vinci immodestly responded, ‘The greatest geniuses accomplish more when they work less.’” Chapters 16, 17, and 18—huge gut-checks for all leaders!

#9. VACATION PROTECTION! When the CEO of Mastercard is on vacation—get this—he gives his cell phone to his wife. “My wife locks the device in the safe with a code that she sets, so I have to get her to open the thing and give it to me!”

#10. CHIEF OF STAFF ROTATION. To both mentor key people (and ensuring the COS role does not become too powerful), the CEO of Mastercard intentionally changes his chief of staff every 18 to 24 months.

#11. NO MORE MR. NICE GUY? “In year six of my eleven-year journey,” reported Brad Smith, CEO of Intuit, “one of my 360 feedbacks came back with, ‘Brad is lowering the standards in the company because he’s being too kind in reviews and isn’t willing to call anybody out.’” While many CEOs are flexible in their coaching, per Ken Blanchard’s situational leadership approach, Smith changed. “I started to coach business performance in public and personal performance in private.”

#12. OH, OH! WHY DOES OUR CEO HAVE A COACH? Initially fearing that if he retained a coach, people would wonder if he was on the bubble, Best Buy’s CEO soon embraced coaching. “Now I realize an executive coach can help successful leaders get better. One hundred percent of NFL teams have a coach—in fact, a coaching staff. Why on earth should CEOs and management teams not have a coach?”

#13. IF YOU WERE CEO…? To enrich continuous learning, Netflix’s CEO asks his top 50 people, “If you were CEO, what would be different at Netflix?” Intuit’s CEO met twice a week with managers several levels down—and asked three questions, including: “What’s getting better than it was six months ago?”



#14. ZOOM MOMENT. The CEO of Electronic Arts—hosting a Zoom meeting of 7,000 employees during COVID—was interrupted by his five-year-old son who asked his dad to make a paper airplane! The CEO paused the Zoom call and—of course—made the paper airplane! (It took just 30 seconds—but the response from work-from-home team members was worth gold. Said one, “Thank you. You just gave us permission to be parents.”)

#15. STAY HUMBLE. Every chapter begins with a “I-must-memorize-this” quotation. Chapter 18’s message, “Stay Humble,” begins with a Sudanese proverb, “A large chair does not make a king.”

#16. SUCCESSION BEGINS ON DAY ONE. Throughout the book, intentional succession and the need for humility oozes out. One CEO noted, “My kids used to say, ‘I’m sure people laugh at your jokes at work because they have to, but you’re honestly not as funny as you think you are.’ When you leave the job…people don’t laugh at your jokes and they don’t call anymore.”

#17. STAY GROUNDED. The CEO of Cadence noted: “Every morning [my wife] reminds me to bless the people I work with. She tells me, ‘It’s not your work; you’re just doing your part. Give the glory to God.’ That keeps me grounded.”

#18. ELEGANT SIMPLICITY. In the helpful conclusion, the authors summarize: “…a third theme is to convey the new direction with elegant simplicity. Virtually every CEO we spoke to could describe their strategy in an elevator ride. They also often had a ‘one pager’ that told the whole story crisply.” (Note: every chapter ends with very helpful bullet-point summaries.)

#19. BEST CEO DESCRIPTION: CONDUCTOR. U.S. Bancorp’s CEO believes a symphony conductor is the perfect metaphor for CEO excellence—noting that at no time in a performance does the conductor [CEO] “actually play an instrument.”

#20. “(DON’T) PUT PEOPLE FIRST!” Chapter 6, “The Talent Management Practice,” is a contrarian and must-read chapter—DON’T put people first. Instead, define the role first. When interviewing the CEO of “an average-performing health care company,” the authors asked three questions:
• “Who are your top twenty most talented leaders?” 
• “What are the twenty most important roles in the company?” 
• “How many people on the first list are filling roles on the second list?”

The CEO’s response? “He went pale.”

Oh, my. I could add another 20 reasons why this book is so helpful. Must-reads: the difference between winning vs. victory, the lottery ticket effect, “Treat the Soft Stuff as Hard Stuff,” pendulum swing lessons, the matrix organization vs. the helix organization, left tackle positions, categorizing talent into four buckets—and the six months rule, the Law of Triviality, plus why Netflix uses a Chaos Monkey and another CEO uses a “Wreckoon” (a small mnemonic) to stress-test thinking in meetings. And don’t miss the “Moments of Truth Practice” (aka crisis stories). “The best way to manage a crisis is, of course, to prevent it in the first place.”

You can’t always eliminate the crisis—but you can inspire your board and your team to read this book. And by the way, McKinsey & Company is a writing machine. Read Fast Times (on digital winners) by four McKinsey partners.

To order from Amazon, click on the title for CEO Excellence: The Six Mindsets That Distinguish the Best Leaders from the Rest, by Carolyn Dewar, Scott Keller, and Vikram Malhotra. Listen to the book on Libro.fm (11 hours, 37 minutes). And thanks to Fortier PR and Simon & Schuster/Scribner for sending me a review copy.



YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) Imagine! The former CEO of Home Depot would regularly write 200 hand-written notes to employees every Sunday—thanking them for a specific customer service story that made its way to the CEO’s office. What might be the powerful result if our team members (and volunteers and donors) received hand-written notes from our CEO?
2) Have you read another book recently (or some years back) that was a comprehensive summary of multiple competencies? What’s your style? Read or listen to one comprehensive book—or read niche books (or niche chapters) to go even deeper?

The Book Bucket chapter in Mastering the Management Buckets, suggests you recommend “niche chapters” to your team members.

Will You Read 1 Book or Niche Chapters in 20 Books? Insights from Mastering the Management Buckets Workbook: Management Tools, Templates and Tips from John Pearson, with commentary by Jason Pearson (2nd Edition, 2018) - Order from Amazon.

The hot-off-the-press book, CEO Excellence: The Six Mindsets That Distinguish the Best Leaders from the Rest, is unusually comprehensive in its scope. Will you read one book or 20 books or 20 niche chapters? For your lifelong learning, here are 20 other books I’ve reviewed—each one related to the Top-20 takeaway topics above:

#1. Exceptionally Practical. Read The Practical Drucker.
#2. Manage by Milestones. Read Scaling Up (Rockefeller Habits 2.0).
#3. Corporate Funerals. Read Necessary Endings.
#4. Practical Worksheets. Read Leadership Core.
#5. Engage the Board. Click here to browse the four governance books co-authored by Dan Busby and John Pearson.
 
#6. Exit Board Members. Read Boards That Lead.
#7. Heart Paddles. Read Myself and Other More Important Matters.
#8. Do What Only You Can Do. Read What You Do Best in the Body of Christ.
#9. Vacation Protection. Read Margin.
#10. Chief of Staff Rotation. Read The Gatekeepers.

#11. No More Mr. Nice Guy. Read Emotional Intelligence 2.0.
#12. Why Does Our CEO Have a Coach? Read What Got You Here Won’t Get You There.
#13. If You Were CEO. Read The Advantage.
#14. Zoom Moment. Read Remote, Inc. and Working Remotely.
#15. Stay Humble. Read Humility.

#16. Succession Begins on Day One. Read How Will You Measure Your Life?
#17. Stay Grounded. Read Experiencing God.
#18. Elegant Simplicity. See Owning Up (and read Chapter 5 on strategy).
#19. Best CEO Description: Conductor. Read Maestro: A Surprising Story About Leading by Listening.
#20. (Don’t) Put People First. Read You’re Not the Person I Hired!


For supplementary resources, click on John's  "Bucket" book and workbook below:
  
            


 

JASON PEARSON: UNEXPECTED CREATIVE
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BIG MISTAKE! Talking the Coach Talk—But Not Walking It

MISTAKE #12: 
See Mistake #12 for a few chuckles. Back in 2001, John had written a glowing endorsement for a coaching book by Gary Collins (1934-2021)—yet John still had much to learn from a coach about being a coach. Order from Amazon





Tuesday, September 30, 2025

 

Your Weekly Staff Meeting | John Pearson Associates
Gentle and Lowly (July 31, 2025)

Issue No. 653 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting 
recommends a book you’ll want to read twice, at least. Running on fumes? Running up the down escalator? Stop... and bask in the heart of Christ. Also, check out the 20 management buckets (core competencies).

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I read this book twice. It's a holy ground page-turner with dozens of PowerPoint-worthy quotes.
 

Our Naturally Decaffeinated Views of God’s Heart

Oh, my. How did I miss this gem in 2020? (Maybe you read this book?) Dane Ortlund asks us, “Who do you think God is—not just on paper but in the kind of person you believe is hearing you when you pray?” He writes that God is “…not yearning for the Facebook you, the you that you project to everyone around you. Not the you that you wish you were.” God is “yearning for the real you. The you underneath everything you present to others.” This might be the most important book you’ll read this year.
 
Dane Ortlund believes “we have a perverse resistance” to the heart of God. “Out of his heart flows mercy; out of ours, reluctance to receive it. We are the cool and calculating ones, not he. He is open-armed. We stiff-arm. Our naturally decaffeinated views of God’s heart might feel right because we’re being stern with ourselves, not letting ourselves off the hook too easily. Such sternness feels appropriately morally serious.” 

But that’s not what the Bible says. Slowly, thoughtfully—and with that rare writer’s gift that compels you to turn the page—Dane Ortlund offers newcomers and old timers a fresh view of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. The author insists: “God’s heart confounds our intuitions of who he is.”

When you read this book—there’s one person you should thank: Paul Lewis. He sent me a copy of Gentle and Lowly. (And not just the hardback. He sent the Imitation Leather Special Edition.) Normally, I underline—and make a mess of—every book I read. Not this one! After two paragraphs, I sensed I was on holy ground. I put my pen away—and read and prayed. Slowly. I listened. Oh, my. The author begins:
 
“This book is written for the
discouraged, the frustrated, the weary, the disenchanted, the cynical, the empty. Those running on fumes. Those whose Christian lives feel like constantly running up a descending escalator.”

Ever wonder if “God’s patience with us is wearing thin” and more? Maybe we love God, “but suspect we have deeply disappointed him.” This book, writes Ortlund, is “for normal Christians. In short, it is for sinners and sufferers.” 

As I journeyed through the 23 short chapters, I found wisdom from the prophets, the apostles, and a few Puritans. Ortlund simply asks us to “open ourselves up to what they tell us about the heart of God and the heart of Christ. The control question is: Who is he?

I thanked Paul Lewis for his gift, but I also thanked another Paul. My friend since college days, Paul Fleischmann, invited me to his “6th Annual Men’s Summer Study Group” in San Diego. This week they just wrapped up eight Tuesday mornings and read—you guessed it—Gentle and Lowly. I stopped by on July 22—and recruited some book testimonials. (See below. My motto: never miss a chance to delegate your work!)

The big idea in Gentle and Lowly? Dane Ortlund writes, “My Dad pointed out to me something that Charles Spurgeon pointed out to him. In the four Gospel accounts given to us in Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John—eighty-nine chapters of biblical text—there's only one place where Jesus tells us about his own heart.” See Matthew 11:28-30:
 
“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden,
and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

Did I mention? I love Ortlund’s writing style. And by the way, I’ll likely review this book a second time with a series of questions the author has sprinkled throughout the book. Here’s an example for Pop Quiz Question #1 (with the answer): Ortlund asks, “If we are asked to say only one thing about who Jesus is, we would be honoring Jesus's own teaching if our answer is gentle and lowly.”

And LOL! Ortlund adds that if Jesus hosted his own personal website, the most prominent line of the “About Me" dropdown menu would read:
"GENTLE AND LOWLY IN HEART."

After slowly savoring the 23 chapters of this very special book, over several weeks, I felt compelled to buy the hardback edition and read it again: one chapter a day. With a pen! (And no page escaped my underlining. Honest.)

Favorite Chapters? All superb—but I especially appreciated seeing Christ’s heart from these chapters:

CHAPTER 8: TO THE UTTERMOST. “Picture a glider, pulled up into the sky by an airplane, soon to be released to float down to earth. We are that glider; Christ is the plane. But he never disengages. He never lets go, wishing us well, hoping we can glide the rest of the way into heaven. He carries us all the way.”

Ortlund quotes theologian Louis Berkhof: “It is a consoling thought that Christ is praying for us, even when we are negligent in our prayer life.” Ortlund adds, “Our prayer life stinks most of the time. But what if you heard Jesus praying aloud for you in the next room? Few things would calm us more deeply.”

CHAPTER 19: RICH IN MERCY. You’ll need to read this chapter for the context, but let me tease you with this: “The only way to make sense of these two kinds of passages is to understand that we can vent our fleshly passions by breaking all the rules, or we can vent our fleshly passions by keeping all the rules, but both ways of venting the flesh still need resurrection. We can be immoral dead people, or we can be moral dead people. Either way, we’re dead.” 

After reading this chapter on mercy, I listened to Gordon Mote sing “Mercy Walked In.” 

CHAPTER 23: BURIED IN HIS HEART FOREVER. With thanks to another Paul, I’m blessed by this picture in Ephesians 2:7, “the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.” And this: Ortlund pokes at “those of us who have been pretty squeaky clean.” Yet on Heaven’s side—he says we’ll be astonished to discover “how deeply sin and self-righteousness and pride and all kinds of willful subconscious rebellions were way down deep inside us” and which—get this—“sends God’s grace in kindness soaring.”

Add this to your next PowerPoint: “If his grace in kindness is ‘immeasurable riches’—as opposed to measurable, middle-class grace—then our sins can never exhaust his heart. On the contrary, the more weakness and failure, the more his heart goes out to his own.” Whew. (Sing along.)
 
When I joined Paul Fleischmann and Paul Lewis on July 22 at the Gentle and Lowly men’s study in San Diego, I invited group members to email me a sentence about what they appreciated about the book. (THANKS, Men! I love these gems.)
   • "Our goal is that our kids would leave the house at eighteen and be unable to live the rest of their lives believing that their sins and sufferings repel Christ." (Mark Stephens)
   • “Ortlund's book was meaningful to me because my Lord Jesus became much more than my Savior from sin, but one who also has overwhelming love for me.” (Tom Hinrichs)
   • “Always gentle and lowly, drawing His own, with the deepest of suffering and sin, to his endless mercy, compassion and love.” (Jerry)
   • “To me, the compelling essence of this book is providing great insight into whether I'm living ‘for the heart of Christ or from the heart of Christ.’” (Daryl Nuss)
   • “Gentle and Lowly teaches me more about God’s eternal purpose in Christ Jesus, that Jesus’ love is poured out upon undeserving sinners, yet is never diminished one bit today and throughout eternity, as Ortlund says on page 207, ‘God made the world so that his Son’s heart had an outlet.’” (Perry)

Paul Fleischmann, who facilitated this eight-week summer study, also shared his notes with me. (Thanks, Paul!) Here’s a taste:
   • Dane Ortlund’s theme is Matthew 11:28-30 where Christ compels us, simply, Come to Me.” He draws on a beloved Puritan writer, Thomas Goodwin, to repeatedly drive home “how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ” (Eph. 3:18). He closes the book with this Puritan’s deep and experienced challenge:  “O therefore come in unto Him. If you knew His heart, you would.
   • “Come to Me” – The Posture most natural to Jesus: Not a pointed finger…but open arms.”
   • In my deep desire to please Jesus with my life, I have often felt, when I repeatedly sin, that He may be on the edge of His patience with me! Gentle and Lowly helped me to see that the Heart of Jesus would never lose patience…any more than my head would direct my body to treat itself harshly.

I hope you’ll read this book. In the two-page Epilogue, Ortlund says that asking, “’How do I apply this to my life?’ would be a trivialization of the point of this study. If an Eskimo wins a vacation to a sunny place, he doesn’t arrive in his hotel room, step out on the balcony, and wonder how to apply that to his life. He just enjoys it. He just basks.”

Blessings to you—as you bask.

OPTION #1: To order the hardback from Amazon, click on the title for Gentle and Lowly: The Heart of Christ for Sinners and Sufferers, by Dane Ortlund. Listen on Libro (5 hours, 16 minutes). 



OPTION #2: To order the "Imitation Leather Special Edition" from Amazon, click here.
 
OPTION #3: To order the "condensed version" from Amazon, click on the title for The Heart of Jesus: How He Really Feels about You, by Dane Ortlund. Listen on Libro (2 hours, 5 minutes). NOTE: In 2024, the author wrote The Heart of Jesus, a “condensed version” (128 pages) of Gentle and Lowly. “Written for a wide audience―including younger readers, new Christians, and anyone who struggles with reading―it features easy-to-read terms and helpful explanations. The chapters are also short enough to read at bedtime, around the dinner table, or during lunchtime.”



 
YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) Pop Quiz! How many steps are there in the Christian life? In the two-page Epilogue, Dane Ortlund writes: “Go to him. All that means is, open yourself up to him. Let him love you. The Christian life boils down to two steps: #1. Go to Jesus. #2. See #1.”
2) Have you ever read the prayers of the Puritans? Dane Ortlund has his favorites. For more, read and listen to selected prayers from The Valley of Vision: A Collection of Puritan Prayers & Devotions, by Arthur Bennett (Editor).
 
    
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Resource #23 of 99:
Thinkpak: A Brainstorming Card Deck


For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Resource #23 of 99 in our new series, “Second Reads.” The big idea: REREAD TO LEAD! Discover how your favorite books (and card decks!) still have more to teach you and the people you’re coaching and mentoring.
Thinkpak: 
A Brainstorming Card Deck  

by Michael Michalko
 
Jump-start your next staff meeting or retreat with this deck of 56 cards and nine “NATO-approved” ways to trigger new ideas. One of the “most highly acclaimed creativity experts in the world, Michalko organized a team of intelligence specialists and others to research, collect, and categorize all known inventive-thinking methods.” The problem says Michalko: “If you always think the way you’ve always thought, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.” 
   • See my review (Issue No. 261, Nov. 26, 2012).
   • Order from Amazon.
   • Management Bucket #3 of 20: The Strategy Bucket

The result: the creativity gurus recommend you “S.C.A.M.P.E.R” and leverage the nine principal ways of changing a subject:
   Substitute something.
   Combine it with something else.
   Adapt something to it.
   Modify or Magnify it.
   Put it to some other use.
   Eliminate something.
   Reverse or Rearrange it.

I’ve used Thinkpak numerous times over the years in retreats and brainstorming sessions. It’s fun and productive. Try it!
 

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Sometimes the right tool at the right time will create a breakthrough. See Ball #4 in the Strategy Bucket, “Summarize Your Plan With a G.N.O.M.E. Chart.”
 


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“Book-of-the-Month Award Show!”

I was so “crazy busy” this week, I got a little carried away with an editorial gimmick over at our Pails in Comparison Blog. Kevin DeYoung’s book, Crazy Busy, won ALL of this month’s PIC book awards! 

 


    How Leaders Lose Their Way (Sept. 17, 2025)

Issue No. 657 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting suggests you should NOT read this book—unless, maybe…perhaps…well…you are on the slippery slope to not finishing well. (Who, me?) Read the case study on King Solomon. Yikes! Plus, visit the 20 management buckets (core competencies).

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In the new book, How Leaders Lose Their Way, the authors write, “Reading Solomon’s reflections in Ecclesiastes, we may be tempted to give him the epithet, ‘Wisest king, worst motivational speaker.’”
 

Naw...I don't need to read this book. (Or do I?)

Before you even read my review of “How Leaders Lose Their Way,” you’ll likely remember one or more leaders who did lose their way. Authors Peter Greer and Jill Heisey write about a troubled leader, “K.P.” Oh, my. Heading a large missions organization, K.P. demanded total loyalty. There was even a mandatory vow of loyalty for all staff. ("Repeat after me.")

“K.P. once said at a prayer meeting that it would be sin to say, ‘I’ll pray about it’ instead of ‘Yes, sir,” were he to request you move to Burma.” It gets worse. His title was “His Eminence Most Revered Dr., Metropolitan Bishop.”
 
How Leaders Lose Their Way: 
And How to Make Sure It Doesn't Happen to You
 
by Peter Greer and Jill Heisey (Sept. 16, 2025)
 
But wait! Before you think, “that will never happen to me,” think again. Have you ever done a deep dive on how Solomon lost his way? It’s shocking. Solomon’s “ego grows along with his empire. His competencies and success lead to hubris. He seems consumed with building, achieving, and accumulating, as though he’s simply unable to stop. He is plagued by greed and abuses his employees.” Greer and Heisey add,
“It’s a true tragedy, a leader who started well
yet lost sight of his roots, relationships, and mission.”

(But…this could never happen to you, right? Wrong!)

WSJ Columnist Peggy Noonan recently quoted from The Sun Also Rises, by Ernest Hemingway. A character, asked how he went bankrupt, says, “Two ways, gradually and then suddenly.” That aligns with the cautionary message of this important new book.

Ten years ago, everyone was talking about Mission Drift: The Unspoken Crisis Facing Leaders, Charities, and Churches, by Peter Greer and Chris Horst, with Anna Haggard. That book was much easier to read. Sure, organizations drift and sometimes fail. But not me! No need to read this new book, right? Wrong!

PERSONAL MISSION DRIFT! Greer warns, “Solomon’s saga of grandiose success to epic failure provides the ultimate case study in personal mission drift.” His story could “describe the life of plenty of contemporary leaders.” He references the “The Stages of Decline” in the classic book by Jim Collins, How the Mighty Fall (written for organizations, not individuals). Greer writes, “…it’s the CliffNotes of King Solomon’s story in the Bible.”

This will preach! “God honored Solomon’s request, giving him legendary wisdom, wealth, and acclaim. But these good gifts became disordered loves.” Examples:
   • Arrogance: “hubris replaced humility.”
   • Exceptionalism: “Solomon seemed to have created an exception clause for himself.”
   • Accumulation: “Solomon never had enough. He built entire cities dedicated to storing his possessions (1 Kings 9:19; 2 Chronicles 8:4-6), yet still he pursued more.”
   • Acceleration: “He excelled at his job, but failed in his mission.”
   • Abuse: “Solomon did not stay mission true.”

“Reading Solomon’s reflections in Ecclesiastes, we may be tempted to give him the epithet,
‘Wisest king,
worst motivational speaker.’”

Yikes. Naw. No need to read Chapter 3 either. “The Allure of Achievement” includes this poke-in-the-ribs from Brennan Manning: “The greatest idol I find in leaders is ambition.” Greer notes that Solomon had unrivaled success in his early years. “Surely one of Solomon’s StrengthsFinder attributes would be Achiever.” (Did you know that Solomon wrote more than 1,000 songs? “He was a combination of a legendary musician and producer all in one.”)

Yet…dip your toe in the water—any chapter—and try to delude yourself into thinking you’re not susceptible to the dangers of personal drift: The Allure of Achievement, The Mastery of Money, The Pursuit of Pleasure, The Problem with Power, The Quest for Control (definitely skip this chapter!), The Need for Speed, The Island Effect, and Self at Center.


View this 50-minute podcast conversation with Peter Greer and ECFA President Michael Martin, “How Leaders Lose Their Way—And How to Stay on Course.” Plus, read more about ECFA’s new standard on “Leader Care.”

Short, but powerful, How Leaders Lose Their Way is not a guilt trip—it’s a road map to finishing well and living well today. The humor sneaks up on you.

When Greer’s son, Myles, was eight, “he came home from school inquiring about the political process in the United States. He was particularly interested in term limits and the four-year election cycle.”

Since Greer serves as president of Hope International, Myles wondered when his dad’s term would end and was told “that term limits were only for political offices, not for nonprofits. Furrowing his brow he questioned, ‘So are you like a king or a president?’” (LOL!)

We’re reminded that all leaders are “interim leaders” and that succession planning is “an underappreciated organizational discipline”—and helps us row in the oppositive direction of “self at the center.” (See Greer’s book on this topic and Steve Woodward’s recent book.)

Each chapter in How Leaders Lose Their Way features “Finding Our Way” exercises—with charts, graphs, and probing questions (impossible to ignore). Example: Noting that like Solomon, “our identity is bound up in our achievements,” we’re asked to reflect: “What names have you embraced? List a few names, titles, or identities that come to mind in the word cloud.” After you’ve filled in the eight circles, then this dagger: “How would you feel if any of these titles no longer described you.”

(See—another reason why you don’t need to read this book!)

And yikes, again! DO NOT read ANY of the powerful prayers by Ryan Skoog at the end of each chapter. (He'll win you over to the right path.) Here’s an excerpt from the “achievement” chapter:

   “Holy Friend,
   Help me run at the pace of your love,
      not at the pace of my ego and insecurity.
   Let my joy be in serving you, not in accolades
      or achievements.
   May your dreams become my dreams,
      your plans, my plans,
      your goals, my goals,
      your aim, my aim.”


By the way, Ryan Skoog, along with Peter Greer and Cameron Doolittle wrote Lead with Prayer: The Spiritual Habits of World-Changing Leaders (my 2024 book-of-the-year). Read my review.

Reminder! DO NOT read this book because then you won’t have to address any of these issues:
   • “Andy Crouch says there are two ways to wrest control back from mammon. The first is generosity, and the second is transparency.” (Must-read story: “Mango Generosity.”)
   • The “Money on Mission Covenant” one-pager with a space for the date and your signature. (Definitely: skip this!)
   • Why one couple “remember God’s goodness each summer with an annual Steaksgiving feast.”

MORE STUFF YOU SHOULD NOT READ:
   • This gut-check on the problem with power: “When facing the temptation for a haughty heart, consider cleaning the latrines.”
   • On the quest for control: “Solomon bankrolled a pretty strong backup plan in case God didn’t show up.”
   • Why Joni Eareckson Tada practices an 80/20 prayer life. (This will surprise you.)
   • The Idiot Test! “Followers and fans are insufficient. To live on mission, we need trusted friends.” Example: Peter Greer appreciates a friend who told him, “Hey Pete, you’re being an idiot.” 

There’s more. BLIND SPOTS! How to avoid “The Island Effect” and why the four quadrants of “The Johari Window” can shine a light onto the “unknown” areas of your life. (See also Chapter 1, “The Johari Window 360: Blind Spots” in Leadership Core, by Dick Daniels (my 2021 book-of-the-year).

So...you probably have it all together and don't need to read this, right? (Probably wrong.)

TO ORDER FROM AMAZON, click on the title for How Leaders Lose Their Way: And How to Make Sure It Doesn't Happen to You, by Peter Greer and Jill Heisey. And thanks to the publisher for sending me a review copy.

 
YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) Will “finishing well” just happen by osmosis (somehow), or will it require God-honoring intentionality? (Not a trick question!) Read my review of Finish Line: Dispelling Fear, Finding Peace, and Preparing for the End of Your Life, by Robert Wolgemuth.
2) In just 78 pages, Ron Cline offers both wisdom and prickly questions in his book, Finishing Well (read my review). Examples:  “What do you want on your tomb stone? What do you want people to say about you at your memorial service? What do you want Christ to say to you?”
3) Speaking of memorial services, you’ll need to read this book before your service is scheduled! Read my review of Yours Truly: An Obituary Writer's Guide to Telling Your StoryHave you written your obit?
 
    
SECOND READS: Fresh Solutions From Classic Books
You have changed—and your problems have changed—since you read this the first time!

Book #27 of 99: The Softer Side of Leadership

For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Book #27 of 99 in our series, “Second Reads.” The big idea: REREAD TO LEAD! Discover how your favorite books still have more to teach you and the people you’re coaching and mentoring.
The Softer Side of Leadership: 
Essential Soft Skills That Transform Leaders 
and the People They Lead

by Eugene B. Habecker (May 17, 2018) 
 
Transparent and more. Oh, my. Not preachy, but personal, Gene Habecker reflects on one of his blind spots: busyness. “When Marylou and I were on our last sabbatical, she threatened to give me an ‘F’ in Sabbatical because I found it was very hard to detach from work in the way Nouwen describes…” (Must-read.)
   • Read my review (Issue No. 385, May 16, 2018).
   • Order from Amazon.
   • Listen on Libro (5 hours, 54 min.).
   • Management Bucket #7 of 20: The People Bucket

My favorite think-about topics (during my second read of this book): two questions from Patrick Lencioni; five questions from the HBR article, “Being a Strategic Leader Is About Asking the Right Questions;” charismatic listeners; what the 9/11 Museum missed; self-abandonment vs. self-fulfillment; and this from Simone Weil: “There are only two things that pierce the human heart. One is beauty. The other is affliction.”
 

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Save the Date!
Oct. 30, 2025
Irvine, Calif.


New and Improved! The Barnabas Group/Orange County is hosting a seminar at Concordia University in Irvine, Calif., on Oct. 30, 2025, Thursday 7:30 – 11:30 a.m. Nonprofit CEOs and board members (and pastors) are invited to learn about “The 8 Big Mistakes to Avoid With Your Nonprofit Board: How Leaders Enrich Their Ministry Results Through God-Honoring Governance.” Presented by John Pearson, the 4th edition of the workbook, available at the seminar, will include EIGHT, not just four BIG mistakes!! More info here.


"I Was Wrong!"

Authors Peter Greer and David Weekley ask a probing question in their chapter, “Healthy Conflict, Not Kumbaya.” They question: “When is the last time you as a board member acknowledged that another board member was right and you were wrong?” 

Monday, September 29, 2025

 

There's Got to Be a Better Way (August 28, 2025)

Issue No. 655 of Your Weekly Staff Meeting
features a contrarian master class in meetings management and “dynamic work flow”—but so much more. Book-of-the-year, maybe? And check out the 20 management buckets (core competencies). Subscribe to this enews here.


NOTE! Effective Oct. 1, 2025, all 657 posts previously featured on Typepad.com will be slowly (!) moved to this blog. New book reviews in John's eNews will also be archived here.



There’s Got to Be a Better Way, just published August 26, describes a “Barbecue the Boss” exercise with a team of 50 people—each with three sticky notes. “While the boss is speaking, I want each of you to write three questions about what you hear.” No question was off-limits. Brilliant!


A Contrarian Master Class in Meetings Management

Here are two options for your last week of summer!

OPTION #1: Squeeze in one more beach read (a really good one—watch for my review):

The Color of Death: A Novel
by Trey Gowdy and Christopher Greyson (Aug. 26, 2025)

OPTION #2: Get a jump on fixing those pesky problems at work (I can’t stop talking about this one!):
 
ANY “FIREFIGHTING ARSONISTS” IN YOUR ORGANIZATION? Is your work flow characterized by LEW (late, expensive, and wrong)? Are team members trapped in a permanent state of crisis management? Help has arrived!

Don Kieffer, co-author of this stunning book, describes a midsize company that assigned 50 people to a new project—and in six months they were already three months behind schedule! Yikes! The problem: the targets and intents were not clear (the what and the why).

Solution? Kieffer facilitated a “Barbeque the Boss” exercise. (It’s brilliant and I know you’ll borrow this idea.)

MEETING #1: Kieffer opened the session by inviting the company’s top 10 executives, including the CEO, to take 10 minutes “to write down the goals of the project and why the goals mattered.” Next, “the executives’ responses were taped to the wall. Everyone walked around and examined each other’s answers, which to their surprise included a ‘secret’ goal from the CFO!”

“The room fell silent. They saw how gaps in thinking on the executive team led directly to the problems the project team was having.” Yikes, again! If the 10 execs were not on the same page—how could they expect a team of 50 to be on the same page? (I know this has never happened in your company or organization, right?)

MEETING #2: The team of 50 (way behind schedule) was then invited to the second meeting with the 10 execs for the “Barbeque the Boss” exercise! Brilliant! Kieffer limited the CEO’s presentation to just 10 minutes and just one PowerPoint slide. (Small miracle there, right?)

“In most sessions where the boss gives a big presentation, she closes by asking if there are any questions, and awkward silence usually follows.” (Maybe softball questions—you know the drill.) “Nobody wants to speak first or challenge the boss in public.”

Kieffer was ready—and had prepped the team members with sticky notes. “While the boss is speaking, I want each of you to write three questions about what you hear.” No question was off-limits. “You can challenge any statement. Just be respectful of one another. Don’t sign your name,” he added. The goal—real questions that would prompt real answers. In the meeting!

Read the rest of the story—and the results in Chapter 4, “Structure for Discovery”—one of five principles in this practical, eye-opening book that you, too, won’t stop talking about. (How often have you moaned—“there’s got to be a better way.”) This book will help you fix the firefighting, the chaos, and the missed deadlines in your own organization. (I promise.)

Principle #1: Solve the Right Problem. LOL! Don Kieffer, now senior lecturer in operations management at the MIT Sloan School of Management, was previously VP of operational excellence for Harley-Davidson. (Ask me about the time I won a 100th anniversary Harley at a trade show!)

In Kieffer’s first year as general manager of Harley-Davidson’s engine plant near Milwaukee, Wis., they were hosting more than 25,000 people per year on plant tours. Yet when reps from Ford Motor Company scouted the manufacturing plant to consider featuring it in a local Ford training seminar—the Harley plant flunked the site inspection! “And they weren’t too kind in how they told him either.”

Must-read: the exasperating exercise a consultant on Toyota standards and methods put Kieffer through—after the consultant asked him to turn off the PowerPoints!

The question: “Mr. Kieffer, can you please tell me the problem you want to solve?” (Trust me—if you just read these 25 pages of Chapter 3, you will have reaped at least 500 times the book's price. Easy.)

Principle #2: Structure for Discovery. Even if you have a generous training and development budget for your team members—this will shock you: “…the learning movement missed a far more fundamental fact: people who do work are learning every day.” And often, they draw “lessons from one or two very good or very bad experiences." (Must-read!)

Is this your culture? “The architects of the Toyota system solved this problem by changing the job description from ‘Do the work’ to ‘Do the work and help us discover a better way of doing it.’”

Principle #3: Connect the Human Chain—Putting People Back in the Work. Ready for one more must-read chapter? “In any system, the work chain consists of all the people and all the connections among them needed to pass work from one step to the next.” So do your meetings enhance and improve the work chain—or are they part of the problem? 

“Connect the Human Chain” is a contrarian master class in meetings management—you'll learn when to use “handoffs” and when to use “huddles” (and the two types of huddles).
   • “Handoffs are effective when the information being transferred is simple and well understood by both parties.”
   • “A huddle, in contrast, is a better choice when the information or material being transferred isn't clear and requires a face-to-face discussion to work through issues to agree on how to proceed.”
   • “Confusing the two—using a handoff when you need a huddle or a huddle when you need a handoff—can bring a work process to its knees.”
   • “Sometimes a five-minute daily meeting or a few sticky notes on a whiteboard work better than millions of dollars in new IT.” 
   • Most frustrating issue in the workplace? “…too many meetings and too many bad meetings.” 

There are two more powerful principles—but you’ll need to read, or listen to, this book to get the full story.

Principle #4: Regulate for Flow—Finish More by Controlling How Much You Start. (See the airplane door tactic and how an international bank got 16 risk managers to work together using a “common backlog” meeting and an “improvement hour” meeting.)

Principle #5: Visualize the Work—Making the Invisible Visible. (Why Fannie Mae used $30 of string and clothes pins “to create a visual representation called the Close Line”—and reduced the time to close its books by almost 80 percent.)

Confession! I read Chapter 9 first, “Getting Started (Without Posters, Coffee Cups, and Three-Ring Binders).” Then, no way could I ignore this wisdom. I had to read the whole book!

Old Management-Theory Wine in New Bottles! "The culture that has arisen around organizational change, aided and abetted by academics and consultants, tends to amplify management’s most destructive tendencies. They keep packaging the same management-theory wine in newly labeled bottles, and it never works any better than it did before. Each failed attempt breeds cynicism and disengagement as frontline employees come to perceive such efforts as little more than executive flights of fancy.”

Co-author Nelson Repenning is the School of Management Distinguished Professor at the MIT Sloan School of Management. Named one of the world’s top executive MBA instructors, he is the director of MITs Leadership Center. (Is it too late for me to go back to school?) He writes:

“The biggest concern that Don and I had in writing this book is simply that it would turn dynamic work design into another initiative. The moment dynamic work design is delivered to an entire organization as a two-day training course (with a half-day overview for busy senior executives) replete with posters, binders, and coffee mugs, we know that its impact will be minimal. Ultimately, we think of dynamic work design as the anti-initiative. It is a proven antidote to the [BS] and silliness that so often defined the modern organization. But that antidote doesn't work in one big dose.” He adds that it is “…a lifestyle change, not a diet.”

Hard work? Yes. Payoffs? Definitely. Read about the boss who now is frequently kicked out of meetings because she’s not needed! And the four-hour meeting that is now just 20 minutes. And the organization where firefighting nearly disappeared. And why the team member who supposedly was “dropping the ball” almost every day just needed a dependable printer. (The boss gave her his credit card to go and buy two printers—one for backup.) There’s more:
   • Why one team opens every meeting with the question, “Are there any fires?”—and leverages a 16-box chart on the wall with four columns (page 237).
   • Why the contrarian wisdom, “Bite Off Less Than You Think You Can Chew,” works so well—and why you should “scope it down” when tackling big problems. Think 30 to 60 days and assign just six to eight people on the problem.
   • Why you might buy this book for your doctor’s office waiting room!
   • Why writing a good problem statement will be your biggest take-away from this book.

And this: “We have come to believe…that problem formation is the single most underrated skill in management.”

I know three colleagues who will insist that I name this my 2025 book-of-the-year.*

TO ORDER FROM AMAZON, click on the title for There's Got to Be a Better Way: How to Deliver Results and Get Rid of the Stuff That Gets in the Way of Real Workby Nelson P. Repenning and Donald C. Kieffer. Listen on Libro. And thanks to the publisher for sending me a review copy.


 

YOUR WEEKLY STAFF MEETING QUESTIONS:
1) In the MIT Executive MBA program, one participant initially described his problem: “My weekly staff meeting demotivates participants and inadvertently discourages participation and innovation.” But after understanding Principle #1, “Solve the Right Problem,” he rephrased the problem to: “My weekly staff meeting receives an average score of 3.5 (on a 5-point scale) against a target of 4.5.” (The short online survey solicited relative agreement with several statements—plus asking for ways to improve meetings.) Are you solving the right problem?

*2) If my oldest brother, Paul Pearson (1939-2015), were still with us today, he would insist that I name There’s Got to Be a Better Way as my 2025 book-of-the-year. Visit the Systems Bucket to read about Paul’s version of dynamic work design—while mentoring a team of volunteers assembling three-ring binders for a national conference. Note his management “crème de la crème” affirmation at the end of the project. Does our "dynamic work design" need help? Who should read this book first?



SECOND READS: Fresh Solutions From Classic Books
You have changed—and your problems have changed—since you read this the first time!

Resource #25 of 99: Let Your Life Speak

For your team meeting this week, inspire a team member to lead your “10 Minutes for Lifelong Learning” session by featuring Book #25 of 99 in our series, “Second Reads.” The big idea: REREAD TO LEAD! Discover how your favorite books still have more to teach you and the people you’re coaching and mentoring.

Let Your Life Speak: 
Listening for the Voice of Vocation 

by Parker J. Palmer 
(25th Anniversary Edition, May 7, 2024)
 
Parker Palmer writes, “…a funny thing happened on the way to my vocation.” He was guided by Frederick Buechner’s inspiring insight: “The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”
   • Note: Reviewed in Issue No. 312, Nov. 22, 2014.
   • Order from Amazon.
   • Listen on Libro (3 hours, 25 minutes).
   • Management Bucket #5 of 20: The Book Bucket

Favorite Story #1: The Clearness Committee. A presidential search committee for a small educational institution invited Palmer for an interview. “So as is the custom in the Quaker community, I called on half a dozen trusted friends to help me discern my vocation by means of a ‘clearness committee,’ a process in which the group refrains from giving you advice but spends three hours asking you honest, open questions to help discover your inner truth. (Looking back, of course, it is clear that my real intent in convening this group was not to discern anything but to brag about being offered a job I had already decided to accept!)”
 

Save the Date!
Oct. 30, 2025
Irvine, Calif.


New and Improved! The Barnabas Group/Orange County is hosting a seminar at Concordia University in Irvine, Calif., on Oct. 30, 2025, Thursday 7:30 – 11:30 a.m. Nonprofit CEOs and board members (and pastors) are invited to learn about “The 8 Big Mistakes to Avoid With Your Nonprofit Board: How Leaders Enrich Their Ministry Results Through God-Honoring Governance.” Presented by John Pearson, the 4th edition of the workbook, available at the seminar, will include EIGHT, not just four BIG mistakes!! Register here.


 

Beware: Pitfalls and Snares!

Watch for my review of this new book from Robert E. Schraeder, PE, Ancient Secrets to Project Management: How to Lead and Thrive in Your Professional and Personal Life (Aug. 17, 2025). Must-read: Chapter 8, "Beware the Pitfalls and Snares of Success." 

  CEO Excellence (March 22, 2022) Issue No. 510 of  Your Weekly Staff Meeting   highlights a potential 2022 book-of-the-year (just published...